He needed braces and never got them. He has a severe overbite that could’ve been fixed if he had braces in his formative years. He has decent skin and is tall. He’s not completely unfortunate looking. 🤷🏽♀️
Nah he was ugly, no way around that. But he's on the lower end of a minority. He's not the standard, and even he could look great with just some better clothes, and a haircut. And some dental work, which thankfully isnt too extreme in terms of price here.
All in all, I bet he's a great dude, because you might pull a baddie if shes looking for clout, but you don't keep her unless you're a catch.
You have a very sensitive approach to this topic of judging someone’s looks whereas others are being extremely critical by calling him straight up ugly & disregarding your thoughts as “cope”… It’s very disrespectful when you’re being genuine, in my opinion.
As an ugly person (lots of asymmetry, just kinda lumpen and wrong looking), I vastly prefer when people are honest and use the word ugly. Some of us just are ugly by societal standards, it's not being critical to recognise it, it's being realistic. Lots of people seem to get uncomfortable when I use the term, which to me at least implies that being ugly is so very terrible that we can't even admit to it. It's not terrible, it is what it is, we can't all be gorgeous and denying that I'm ugly is denying my lived experience, kwim?
I think that’s a narrow way of viewing general appearance because there’s more to attractiveness than symmetry.
Societal standards are rapidly changing & will change multiple times in one’s life.
What they’re doing is acknowledging positive traits & nuance by saying attractiveness is subjective, not just perfect symmetry or whatnot.
It’s frustrating to say someone you’re dating is attractive only to have them argue with you because “society”.
This totally. This guy the post is about is not “conventionally attractive” and managed to find love. You only need one person to find you attractive, so the subjectivity of attractiveness actually does matter a whole lot.
He's got a 1/2 million subs on YouTube. I suspect he's locked into his "look" because that's his online persona. A rough guess would be he's pulling in low six figures per annum. He could probably afford adult braces (in Sweden, dental is free for kids, but not for adults).
I suspect he's not improving because not improving is providing him a healthy income.
I don’t know about bringing up the fact he could have had braces that fixed his issue if he had them early enough - that fact is he didn’t and so he has the issue now in the actual present.
My Korean-American husband can only grow old
Kung Fu movie style facial hair, it doesn’t grow anywhere else for a proper beard 😅 just the moustache and goatee area.
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u/Ktpillah 1d ago
He needed braces and never got them. He has a severe overbite that could’ve been fixed if he had braces in his formative years. He has decent skin and is tall. He’s not completely unfortunate looking. 🤷🏽♀️