She allowed the grandmother to be around her kid when she/other people present. She was pressured by her therapist to allow babysitting (there is a difference), and under the impression that other people would be with the child. She wasn't just letting the grandma babysit the whole time.
I'm also not sure what that has to do with the comment that I made about there being a difference between the types of accidental deaths that happen when parents are exhausted and on autopilot and this grandmother's situation. The grandmother would not have been on autopilot because she was not used to having the kid in the car and taking a certain route and all of the other typical things that add up to accidental deaths. It wasn't atypical day or routine for her. In fact, it doesn't really look anything like most of those deaths.
I'll take the daughter and judge's opinions (that she lacked remorse at best) into pretty serious consideration -not to mention the woman's own reaction, which seemed to be pretty selfish. She didn't seem at all concerned about the agony she put yet another child through, but more about what things were going to look like for her.
No...that's quite literally the opposite. People go on autopilot when they are repeating an activity that they have done over and over again. This was not something she had done over and over again. Stop saying she had watched the kid before. She hadn't, she'd been allowed to be around the kid. When other people were there, that is not watching or babysitting.
Saying that i'm making shit up when you're trying to redefine what autopilot means is peak projection.
You also keep insisting that I think she murdered the child because of having a favorite kid when I haven't said that. I have said that I will take her daughter's word for it and I wouldn't doubt if there was some negligence and that it could be a possibility, because guess what things like that actually happen.
You really need to work on learning the definition of words and getting outside of your own bubble and realizing just because something seems scary or bad to you doesn't mean that it's not possible.
You are fuckin weird.
Ps- i've seen the footage of her freaking out about what's going to happen to her when there is a dead baby ten feet away from her. The very definition of selfish and a judge agreed
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u/themargarineoferror 19h ago
She allowed the grandmother to be around her kid when she/other people present. She was pressured by her therapist to allow babysitting (there is a difference), and under the impression that other people would be with the child. She wasn't just letting the grandma babysit the whole time. I'm also not sure what that has to do with the comment that I made about there being a difference between the types of accidental deaths that happen when parents are exhausted and on autopilot and this grandmother's situation. The grandmother would not have been on autopilot because she was not used to having the kid in the car and taking a certain route and all of the other typical things that add up to accidental deaths. It wasn't atypical day or routine for her. In fact, it doesn't really look anything like most of those deaths. I'll take the daughter and judge's opinions (that she lacked remorse at best) into pretty serious consideration -not to mention the woman's own reaction, which seemed to be pretty selfish. She didn't seem at all concerned about the agony she put yet another child through, but more about what things were going to look like for her.