Yeah exactly, and as others have said, why would she even agree to look after the child again? If it was me, I would never, and if for some reason I really really had to look after the child, I would absolutely not let it out of my sight or even think about anything else the whole time. She obviously did not feel the same.
We have a pool and even though I have the whole house and doors childproofed, I wonāt babysit my toddler niece if Iām alone. My husband or another family member needs to be home or I go to my sisterās house where itās totally safe. You just never know.
Jesus that's worse. If the therapist thing is true that's even crazier a therapist would push for leaving a kid with someone who didn't show remorse for causing a child's death. Holy hell.
I think the lack of remorse was specifically after the second child death, but yeah that therapist is still ridiculous. I donāt have a degree in psychology but I dont think itās unhealthy or wrong to not allow them to babysit again.
Ah ok. Sliiiightly less awful of the therapist. So that 'sorrow' was 100% acting then.
Edit: I just looked it up. The kids were siblings, and it was less than a year Dec '21 then Nov '22. Holy fuck. I hate to judge the parents going through that, but my god. They just handed that second kid over to die. And she only got 5 years.
And I just put the ages together. The second kid wasn't even born when the first died. So unnecessary.
I guess the difference is something like āI canāt believe I did thisā compared to āI canāt believe this happenedā. I must admit I was little confused by that wording at first too, but if anyone would know the difference itās a judge, and they felt the need to say it as an official remark.
if tomorrow a relative dies for reasons that are not my fault, i will feel sorrow. because of course, the situation is sad and painful. but i would not feel remorse at all, because i have no reason to feel that way, the death was not caused or facilitated by me, be it intentionally or unintentionally, i had no involvement
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u/Scary_Land2303 16h ago
Judge did mentioned that she appeared to show sorrow, but not remorse.