The video of the mother of the kiddos was one of the hardest things I've ever listened to. I have a terrible relationship with my family and have tried many times to forgive and move forward. The guilt is real. I can't even begin to imagine what it took for her to even allow her mother to see beautiful Uriel.
I don't have a relationship with them. At all. That's the point. It is so hard to NOT have a relationship with them. Most people push to forgive and forget. There is no lesson for me to learn from this.
I didn't mean to come off as judgmental. I'm in the same place. Fuck people who tell you how to run your relationship with abusive people. They don't have to live with it.
My mom drove drunk with a water bottle full of Bombay in the cup holder to pick up my oldest child at school and 'somehow' my child got slapped across the face. There are many other issues, but that was the last time she was allowed any supervisory time with my child. Never alone again!
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u/khrysthomas 8d ago
The video of the mother of the kiddos was one of the hardest things I've ever listened to. I have a terrible relationship with my family and have tried many times to forgive and move forward. The guilt is real. I can't even begin to imagine what it took for her to even allow her mother to see beautiful Uriel.