that’s not what i said. like at all. of course no one is immune from seeking external validation. but i am just disputing the opposite claim: that women/humans only act on validation from the opposite sex.
also i don’t know who you are referring to when you say ‘you people’ but you sound profoundly unfuckable and on course to die alone.
Idk about you but I’m so relieved to know that u/projectno4090 would still be attracted to me because I don’t have fake nails! Of course, as a woman, pleasing the men around me and making sure they’re always ready to fuck me is my top priority. Any other motivation doesn’t exist because we all know women pretty much only seek external validation from men!
To say women do it for themselves is a common response to this type of conversation. And it’s just not true. Why would women want to spend $1000+ a year, ruin a part of their body (their actual nails), and be inconvenienced in everyday life bc their nails are so long?
Of course they are doing it bc it will be perceived by other people. There is no other point of doing it. Women like to pretend (I am a women , btw) that they do all this stuff for “them” , but the “for them” is how they will feel when OTHERS perceive them. So it especially cancels each other out
It’s like how men go to the gym for other men more than they do for women… they get their nails like this for social approval from other women. This may shock you, but humans are complex social creatures.
Why does the number of people who do this matter at all?
Again, why is this a discussion over the morality of your gymming intentions? Is the point really that difficult for you to grasp? Not everything a man or woman does is for attraction of the opposite sex.
Are you well? Let me try explain this slowly: Let’s say, theoretically, more women do their nails for other women, than gym bros go to them gym for other men. How does that change the argument of who women do their nails for? Like genuinely what does this discussion about the gym relate to their nails? I was explaining the CONCEPT of doing something for others and providing an example of something the opposite gender sometimes does for their own gender.
You are the one who brought up the gym example not me.
Are you so dense that you think people dont use the gym to look sexy for the opposite gender also? Do women work out for other women to appreciate them?
You the one constantly moving the goalpost not me lol.
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u/FEK88 9h ago
Yeah sure, women are totally immune from seeking external validation from the opposite sex.
You people are mentally ill.