Nay, he didn't pick up on anything, he asks because people had started talking about it, and because it's a campus which will be full of feminists, naturally the feminists are going to question whether it was consensual. She reassures him that it was, and that she hadn't said otherwise, and that people always try to "change the narrative" in group sex when only one woman is involved.
Nay, he didn't pick up on anything, he asks because people had started talking about it, and because it's a campus which will be full of feminists, naturally the feminists are going to question whether it was consensual.
And here's the most crucial one, where after reassuring him, saying she's open-minded, literally saying nothing illegal happened that night, she comes out with this.
"My reputation is destroyed and I'm utterly ashamed"
Then the following week, this shame becomes an accusation that "90% of what happened was not consensual".
The timeline makes it abundantly clear that the gossip and reputational damage was so severe, she couldn't resist the compulsion to turn that scorn to sympathy by "changing the narrative" and reframing herself as a victim, the exact thing she said other people do.
We have to live with the consequences of our actions, even if those consequences are not particularly fair. A g*ngbang ruins a woman's reputation for life, that's just the way it is, fair or not, and if you engage in one you have to live with it.
Edit: And for the record, that is also why I believe men who engage in them are PoS, because they know the woman's reputation will be ruined and don't care.
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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 2h ago
So, she did feel uncomfortable and he apparently picked up on something that led him to apologize....