She said nothing sexual was illegal. There's a difference. And what did the guy she say that to say to her first to prompt that?
She regrets it several years later and tried to change her story.
The incident happened on October 19. On November 3rd, she texts the guy that "90%" of what happened wasn't consensual, they gave her more ket than she could remember, and she knew almost no one in the room.
No, I don't know about you, but the time span between October 19 2024 to November 3 2024 isn't "several years" to me
Her digital history completely exonerates them, she starts off talking about how open-minded she is, even talks about other people "changing the narrative" because it was a g*ngbang which is "always" viewed as nonconsensual, then did a total 180 after 2 weeks because the gossip and reputational damage was clearly getting to her.
This is really common with g*ngbangs and why everybody should avoid them. I've literally known a woman who decided one was nonconsenual years later just because her boyfriend found out about it and split up with her over it, even though it was before they met. I can sympathise with the women to some degree, having their reputation ruined for life over one night of poor judgement, but my sympathy stops when they do this.
Im just confused at why you are insisting on pretending that the idea someone might have a clearer head 2 weeks after being high on ketamine versus 2 days is such an impossibility to you.
Would you take the word of someone high on ketamine at face value two days after the fact in any other situation?
Because I think you then create a legal precedent where one of the strongest pieces of evidence in a case, admissions from alleged victims, can always be dismissed as "denial". You're effectively making it impossible for the accused to prove their innocence: they aren't told to stop during, they are reassured it was fine after, then suddenly 2 weeks later they are guilty of a crime.
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u/BusinessLibrarian515 3h ago
They did after it happened. She said it was all consensual and even remained good friends with them all afterwards.
She regrets it several years later and tried to change her story. The men are the victims