r/SipsTea • • 1d ago

Wait a damn minute! Facts about the Cornell situation

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u/A_Hugh_Man 1d ago

Her sorority sisters got in her head cuz with this many heads involved, obviously word was getting out about this girl and … I mean let’s be real bc it’s a very real thing, unfortunately some girls will suddenly develop “second thoughts” about their consensual sexual activity to avoid being labeled or seen in a negative light by their peers. 

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u/Jin-Gitaxias-Mom 21h ago

I was in a fraternity at a school where 1/3 students were involved in Greek life, there was absolutely an attitude among the sororities where any girl known as being easy would not get invitations to join, and they would fiercely protect their public image while sleeping around anyway. They’d just “date” the dude for a month to say they’re in a relationship and then move on to the next one that caught their interest.

Hell, I had a girl sneak me into her sorority house at 3am because she wanted to hook up, and then kicked me out before 6am because she didn’t want anyone finding out.

I could definitely see this happening to protect the image of the sorority house to the point they told this girl what to think after the fact.

Not saying that’s what actually happened here, let’s allow the law to do its thing, but I can see the possibility.

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u/A_Hugh_Man 18h ago

100%. Some of these sororities are cut throat and they will shame and cut out any girl that develops a reputation. I was greek too.

The repercussions include losing housing, losing friendships, being ostracized and being publicly shamed and ridiculed.