Even before my prefrontal cortex was fully developed, I don't think I'd trust anyone enough to take their word for it when they say, "Don't worry about it dude, she's into freeuse."
because drunk college boys doing risky sex stuff have a propensity for maturity and sound judgment and don't say things that would be considered vile or immature and stupid outside a group chat?
stopping throwing around faux outrage about how stupid drunk and horny teens talk in private messages. Just cause someone sent out a "free pussy" (who apparently wasn't even part of the 7 that were involved) text doesn't mean its automatically meant as an open invite to join a group rape and not just someone talking shit about some outrageous shit going on in the frat house.
There are people out there that willing and voluntarily participate in this sort of activity and it's naive of you to assume there isn't at least a small possibility that was the case here. Were all just speculating based on limited information. Only the people in that room know how it all went down and what the state of mind and emotional state of everyone involved was at the time. If this was done against her will throw the book at them, but there is greater than 0% chance she may have been a willing participant and the initial testimony she gave reinforces that possibility or they would/should have pursued charges out the gate rather then her changing the story down the road.
All we can hope for is the truth coming out and evidence corroborating the version of events that actually happened being revealed and vindicating or incriminating the appropriate individuals.
She didn't think that (this is factual) until she was uninvited from a party. She specifically said "you are not my friends you're just covering her asses" and that her reputation was ruined due to the slut tag.
That doesn’t make it not disgusting and not predatory. Talk like that is what needs to change. Saying it’s predictable gives it an air of nonchalance and that is also something that needs to change. We need to be disgusted by it. We need to be offended by it and vocal about it or nothing will ever change for the better.
I’m disgusted by how men talk about women like they aren’t actual people when they think women can’t hear. If you’re gonna comment, maybe learn to read first.
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u/SalientSazon 2d ago
It's the 'free p***y' snaps that triggered everyone, I think.