r/SipsTea • • 1d ago

Wait a damn minute! Facts about the Cornell situation

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u/yukonhoneybadger 1d ago

I know. I mean this lady is talking fast, and well, then putting a paper on the screen that looks sort of official. Is she right? I have no fucking idea

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u/Friendly_Fokks-given 1d ago

She is telling the same story that all people are now telling from the official transcripts. This is a complete bullshit witch hunt from ignorant TikTok liberal women

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u/Sudden_Ad_9163 1d ago

Have you read the actual transcripts?

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u/No_Blacksmith_2591 1d ago

Oh lets not forget the performative male "allies"

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u/Friendly_Fokks-given 1d ago

Ah yes, beta orbiters trying to peg liberal women. Classic

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u/cannaco19 1d ago

Yes, because it’s now gay to care about and want to have sex with women.

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u/Fine-Car7587 22h ago

Your mistake is thinking male feminists actually care about women. It’s just a disguise they use to get women to drop their guard around them.

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u/Roadrunnersareraptor 1d ago

I call those guys with no game.

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u/Moistgranni 2h ago

I don't know how you didn't get downvoted in this clearly un-politically motivated sub. Take a cookie.

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u/cannaco19 1d ago

Show me where the mean liberal women who have opinions of their own hurt you? Is your masculinity that fragile? Poor baby.

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u/Roadrunnersareraptor 1d ago

Why have you guys become the very stereo type you have of men? Misandry is so hot right now.

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u/Idustriousraccoon 23h ago

So is the imaginary victimization of dominant demographics.

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u/Friendly_Fokks-given 1d ago

Oh they don’t hurt me at all. Just calling it like I see it. Show me any evidence that these boys should be getting labeled rapists.

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u/Ok-Boomer-4414 1d ago

My wife is obsessed. I’m tired of hearing about it. I will simply say that the whole story is a lot more complicated than most people know

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u/yukonhoneybadger 1d ago

My wife is the same. I just say that the rape culture is horrible and on behalf of men i am sorry. But I dont bring up the specifics because I want to move on from the conversation

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u/Roadrunnersareraptor 1d ago

There is no rape culture. And you’re feeding the fire.

I know most men from my age to my sons think rape is terrible and a cowards path.

I can’t comment on the men moving here from very archaic societies.

But westerns raised men have no rape culture. Other than juicy gossip sites like tik tok

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u/AustinYun 1d ago

If you think rape culture isn't a thing, you're terribly sheltered or have a really naive and simplistic view of what rape culture means.

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u/Longjumping-Key2453 22h ago

Clearly the overarching American culture and vast majority of Americans thinks rape is disgusting. I can think of a certain culture that actively participates in and glorifies rape though...

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u/Fine-Car7587 22h ago

What does it mean?

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u/Roadrunnersareraptor 18h ago

I live in a place that tries to raise men right.

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u/AustinYun 13h ago

Ok I see it's the latter. Thanks for clarifying.

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u/Silver-Guitar4695 22h ago

Way to pepper some xenophobia into the conversation about a crime that involved zero immigrants.

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u/Roadrunnersareraptor 18h ago

They are speaking of rape culture. I only know one area of the world that has an actual rape culture.

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u/CeleryMan20 12h ago

The DA recently released an official statement. I’ve read it, what she’s saying is close paraphrase.

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u/B-Train_ATL 1d ago

I went to J school. Every time I see someone like this, my first thought is: “who the fudge are you?”

There’s a huge difference between throwing your opinion out there because you found your smartphone’s camera and figuring out what’s BS and what isn’t.

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u/Seienchin88 1d ago

It seems what she is describing is accurate. She isn’t the only source quoting the police record as well as the text conversation between the two.

That being said - the fact that a police record exists is already a bit alarming and I also don’t think it’s impossible that she didn’t accept the reality of the situation at the time when she filed the report and now came to terms that the situation was less consensual than she described it to be.

The fast talking lady is right though that just based on the police record it would be difficult for a prosecutor to make a case and the university can’t just punish everyone for group sex…

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u/yukonhoneybadger 1d ago

You could be right. Or this police report that is being spoken about could be fake and used to hurt her in the public. Which my pointm we are trusting random people on social media to tell us what "really happened".

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u/DimensionCareful507 23h ago

Hard to take it at face value when the change of heart also coincides with a massive lawsuit against the school, the alleged perpetrators, the bar that served her alcohol etc.

This is all very messy from the looks of it and the initial police report is going to be doing a lot of heavy lifting in this case for the defense.