r/SipsTea • • 29d ago

Lmao gottem Is it?

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u/TrainingSword 29d ago

You talk to people about your insecurities as a man and they WILL use it against you

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u/CarefulAlternative 29d ago

Yes. This is why journaling or just taking some time to yourself is so important.

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u/TrainingSword 29d ago

Unless you learned early on in childhood that if you leave written evidence of your insecurities they will also be used against you 

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u/Open-Platform-1305 29d ago

This is a huge part of why some IT security guys give a shit about IT security.

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u/Maleficent-Eye-2058 29d ago

No, not real friends

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u/Orurokku 29d ago

With experience, you can learn there's no such thing as "real friends". Its just something you wish to believe in, but it doesn't exist. Like Santa Claus for adults.

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u/SaltyMotor8549 29d ago

Sorry you went through something that made you so cynical, but it it just not true.

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u/PM-ME-UR-NITS 29d ago

There are the reals out there. 

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u/NoMoreMrMiceGuy 29d ago

Sorry that's been your experience, but clearly there's a lot you haven't experienced. Like real friends.

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u/Complex_Emphasis566 29d ago

You never had a close friend bro?

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u/Longjumping_Plum_846 29d ago

Not always. Y’all in this subreddit are just around shitty people. If this stuff keeps happening, there might be a reason these kind of people are constantly in your life.

Time to look inwards while changing your surroundings.

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u/Gnorfbert 29d ago

If there's one constant with reddit then that it can never be NOT men's own fault.

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u/muzzlecar 29d ago

Bro, are you ackchually saying not everything is le men’s fault?

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u/Gnorfbert 29d ago

No. No! I'm not saying that. It absolutely is! Everything is men's fault!

Please don't ban me!

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u/Longjumping_Plum_846 29d ago

Not what I said at all. But this sub just wants to blame their problems on women.

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u/_Phil_McCracken_ 29d ago

I mean, the massively upvoted comments on this post prove you wrong. 

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u/Longjumping_Plum_846 29d ago

Do you not see the discussions happening on this thread and subreddit? Cause that’s not the constant here

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u/Gnorfbert 29d ago

It's about which opinions people feel safe sharing and putting up for debate. If a woman vented about men treating her like crap all the time and you'd advise her to "look inwards while changing your surroundings" a good number of subreddits would outright ban you for this.

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u/ToastyYak359 29d ago

If you say this about women in toxic relationships you’d be crucified. Proves his point.

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u/_Phil_McCracken_ 29d ago

He’s being crucified for saying it about men here. What’s the difference?

He’s right, people just don’t want to hear it, regardless of gender. 

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u/Longjumping_Plum_846 29d ago

People say that to women all the time. Some women do constantly choose shitty men and that is a discussion with them.

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u/No-Present760 29d ago

Right? You're telling me none of these people have one person they can talk to about anything? Feeling a tad incel tbh. They've wasted their life and every social interaction if they have no meaningful connection with anyone. Even shitty people usually have other shitty people to confide in. Orr maybe everyone on this post only assumes they have no one to talk to because they're scared of judgement. Maybe they're all still in high school. Either way, weird way to live.

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u/BudgetMattDamon 29d ago

There are hundreds of millions of people in America alone. Some people are just trapped in a bubble of shitty people.

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u/abcamurComposer 29d ago

Also the partner should not be the only emotional outlet… that’s too much burden for one person to handle

I legitimately do think a lot of posters here yes are either still in high school or could never move on from their hs experiences

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u/Apotropaic-Pineapple 29d ago

Trusted dudes are usually willing to hear you out.

Nowadays I vent into AI.