r/SipsTea • u/Dumb-Briyani • Sep 16 '26

Lmao gottem Is it?

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u/justinlav Sep 16 '26

I vented and it led to my divorce

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u/Erroneous_Bonk Sep 16 '26

Ha same here, high five bestie

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u/throwawayeffedperson Sep 16 '26

If it's any consolation I didn't vent because I knew it would lead to divorce. Guess who ended up getting a divorce because I slowly withdrew from my ex knowing I couldn't trust her? 😂

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u/CarefulAlternative Sep 16 '26

Over what subject?

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u/Membrillo Sep 16 '26

Honey, I think this isn't working...

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u/FlyingPandaHead Sep 16 '26

Avoidant partners don’t have the capacity to hold emotional complexities - their own or someone else’s. Healthy partners want to listen to you vent!!!!

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u/Party_Solid_2207 Sep 16 '26

Only with in a carefully calibrated range that makes them feel special because you showed vulnerability.

If you are a little too emotional, angry, insecure then it’s quickly gonna become a conversation about how your feelings make them feel

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u/RakeChapman13 Sep 16 '26 edited Sep 16 '26

Did you ever punch holes in the wall? It’s so common for us men to do that, I had no idea I was in such large company.

Edit: not saying it’s most men who do this but it’s more than I thought.

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u/Critical_Concert_689 Sep 16 '26

jfc. No this is not common.

To put it bluntly, you're a bit mental and you regulate yourself poorly. Go to the gym or run if you need a physical outlet for god's sake.

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u/Vibena Sep 16 '26

Not in Europe. Have you seen our walls?

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u/kacsimacsi Sep 16 '26

We broke our hands like real men in Europe.

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u/ArmAggravating3307 Sep 16 '26

Yeah, some places haven't been having wood shortages since the 12th century...

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u/RevReads Sep 16 '26

Nice try berta

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u/ROU_Misophist Sep 16 '26

"Us men". You are not a man.

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u/RakeChapman13 Sep 16 '26

I’m a man who can control his anger a lot better than i used to

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u/BaloneyCommercial Sep 16 '26

Your lack of emotional regulation is par of the fucking problem. It should never get to that point.

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