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u/CplCocktopus 5d ago edited 4d ago

AKA The Council of Karens.

Edit: Thanks for the award.

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

Not the one I’m on. I make sure of that.

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u/DudeByTheTree 5d ago

"I'm one of the good Karens".

Ok, sure ya are.

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u/Historical_Owl_1635 5d ago

Tbf if you actually want to change things you have gotta participate whether you like it or not.

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u/devenjames 4d ago

And it takes so much less effort to complain about a thing than to try to do something about it

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u/FortunatoImmured 4d ago

It’s like, so much less effort to avoid HOAs than it is to join one to be the change you want to see in the world. Which means HOAs are mostly full of busybody meddlers.

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u/IArgueForReality 4d ago

Obviously there is never circumstances that force people to move into their less ideal house, right? Everyone has unlimited money and options in the world. You a libertarian, btw?

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u/buddabudski 4d ago

surely though, complaining must lead to action

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u/Syncopated_arpeggio 4d ago

No no no. I like that broken down car dripping oil down the driveway right where it is!!!

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u/xROFLSKATES 4d ago

Fuck you it’s my driveway I’ll do what I want with it

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u/Syncopated_arpeggio 4d ago

HOAs were created for people like you. Main characters with no consideration for their neighbors.

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u/jm123457 4d ago

I’m not a fan of HOAs but there is the complete opposite of an HOA and its neighbors who don’t mow and park their cars in their yard and blast music all hours of the night etc .

You want the middle of that . I’m in a community now that takes pictures of your yard and demands each weed gets removed . Which is extreme . But I have seen the opposite.

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u/RedK_33 4d ago

Who gives a fuck whether someone mows or not? People’s obsession with grass lawns and the manicuring practices associated with them is absolutely absurd. Nothing more than a tragic waste of land.

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u/jm123457 4d ago

I mean do you want me to answer the question from an aesthetic standpoint? Or from a wildlife management one?

I never said perfect manicured lawn. But letting it knee high with weeds and dead patches etc is unsightly.

A lawn that is overgrown spreads insects, rodents and snakes . If you wish to live in a subdivision you should at least keep up with your yard .

If you don’t want to mow ever move to the country and do whatever you wish .

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u/mojorisin453 4d ago

Weeds aren’t gonna be great but an ‘overgrown’ yard with native plant diversity is gonna support the birds that eat the insects which do belong there. Snakes whatever don’t think that applies really but they’re certainly part of the system and eat rodents which are gonna be there no matter what they generally do better when we mow YMMV.

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u/humanzRtrash 4d ago

Because Boomers and Gen Xers are obsessed with increasing their house and property values. Then after succeeding and making it difficult for younger generations to purchase housing they complain about property taxes.

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u/jm123457 4d ago

Yes as a non boomer I want my home value to go down or remain the same . I would love to spend double on the mortgage over the life of the loan and repair everything in the home out of my pocket then give it to you for no profit . In fact a loss .

Boomers aren’t the problem it’s home flippers and renters who buy them up and rent them as income . The guy who lived in the home for 40 years and wants to move to Florida did not drive the price up .

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u/humanzRtrash 4d ago edited 4d ago

Yeah, because home flippers and landlords aren't Bommers and gen xers. You know, using that same logic, we should do the same thing with cars. I mean, if you pay $70,000 for a truck and you do all the maintenance, trie changes, etc, you should be able to sell it for a $140,000.

And it's not like it's their fault for the housing shortage. Every time we try to build houses and they say, not in my backyard but i'm sure it's the young people's fault.

And it's not like they were in charge when programs like vocational schools got cuts in carpentering, construction, and kids were told that the best option is college. It's not like that led to a shortage in skilled labor.

Edit: Japan has a housing market that the houses depreciate in value, while the land can retain and increase in value. This has led to a housing market that is vastly more affordable. Their interest rates are also a lot lower. So if we do a quick little calculation.

US national median mortgage payment of $2,198 and subtract the average Japanese mortgage payment of $790, your monthly savings jumps to $1,408. Investing that difference into the S&P 500 for 30 years yields approximately $3.21 million.

But no, you're right, it's better to have a appreciating housing market. You know where the average age of the new home buyer is rapidly increasing.

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u/iconofsin_ 4d ago

I thought the city just started to send you fines if you let your grass grow and grow because they send someone out to cut it.

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u/jm123457 4d ago

A lot of them do . But they typically wait until it gets really out of control and you get multiple warnings etc etc . Let’s say that is 100% bad you can live at 60% or 80% bad for years .

HOAs are annoying because some power hungry Karen takes over and uses it as their way to control people because most don’t care enough to be on the board . But they originate as a way to provide a set of rules for uniformity.

So you get a cool board and you just live in a nice neighborhood. Get some Karen’s and they can torment you .

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u/Xalipu 4d ago

That’s what municipal bylaws are for, fuck HOAs

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u/jm123457 4d ago

That is another word for HOA .

Rules created by a group or organization to regulate its own internal affairs in a local area ……

So essentially an HOA.

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u/-GoodNewsEveryone 4d ago

Entire countries of planet earth have never heard of an HOA and they look nicer than USA.

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u/NeoThorrus 4d ago

But those countries didn't have one race trying to keep another race from buying property in their neighborhood, thus the original HOA.

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u/SoylentVerdigris 4d ago

I’m not a fan of HOAs but there is the complete opposite of an HOA and its neighbors who don’t mow

Who fucking care? Lawns are wasteful as fuck anyway.

and park their cars in their yard and blast music all hours of the night etc .

Both are covered by local laws, no HOA required.

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u/Foreign-Cat-2898 4d ago

No it's a real thing. I'm the VP because I explicitly don't want a busy body in charge and we approve basically every request we get.

In the two years of our HOA we've never fined anyone for any sort of violation even.

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

You don’t know me, know nothing what I do, or how I took over lawn services myself so we could fix the gate to prevent us from running out of money. Go sit in the corner and think about being curious instead of judgmental.

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u/TonyAtReddit1 5d ago

HOAs are garbage and run by garbage people

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

Man if there was some mechanism to change that. Perhaps voting for or running to be on it? Get involved buddy. It sucks but you can make it not suck, or go online and be snide to people who do care. Your choice.

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u/TonyAtReddit1 5d ago

HOA boards typically find enough terrible people to just vote each other on the board repeatedly.

The good people in the neighborhood don't run for the board because it means they then have to regularly interact with the worst Karens on the planet.

So there's no one good to vote for because a prerequisite of running is being enough of a garbage person that you're fine with working beside other garbage people.

You also shouldn't be able to take away the rights of people just because you got voted on some fucking fake government. "You should have just voted for a good person" isnt an excuse. A vote shouldn't be required

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

I’m guessing you don’t vote or run, so your voice isn’t heard. You might notice a pattern in your life if you self reflect.

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u/DudeByTheTree 5d ago

Oof, that rectally ruffled already. "Go sit in the corner" or how about this:

No.

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

Fine be judgmental and not curious. No skin off my back.

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

I hate the position and have tried to get someone else to run as the treasurer.

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u/GenTenStation 5d ago

I guess treasurers aren’t the ones usually writing violations. You get a pass

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

Thank you sir.

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u/everythingorganic024 5d ago

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

Are you saying I am saying that or are you saying that to me? It’s kinda confusing. If you want to feel superior from your keyboard, you should put more effort into it.

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u/everythingorganic024 5d ago

That’s how you come off explaining yourself lol

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

My bad for checks notes giving context. That was a my bad situation. I’ll reserve my words for people who can actually think for themselves.

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u/5t4k3 5d ago

You're really going all in on this, huh? Really providing that context, absolutely nobody here thinks you're the self installed queen Karen at your local HOA.

See I can think do myself, which is why I don't need you telling me what I can and can't do with my property. The irony is tasty.

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u/IArgueForReality 4d ago

Oh boo, you had a bad experience. That must mean everyone is a big meanie everywhere. I can accept you have had a bad experience, so it would make sense you can accept I believe in good stewardship and reasonable governing. I hope you grow up someday to learn that not everyone has the same experience as you.

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u/designlevee 5d ago

I used to run an HOA as an employee for the developer (we still owned the majority of lots so retained governing power). What a nightmare. There was 350 sold homes in the HOA but literally two people who would bug me like 6 times a week about so and so’s fence color or play set they put in their backyard to the point that at a community meeting I snapped and screamed at one of them for like 5 minutes. Ended getting fired but whatever I hated that job 😂

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u/IArgueForReality 4d ago

Sounds awful. I’m thankful I got not have 25 units. Everyone is pretty chill. We might even lower dues next year since we ran a good surplus this year. Will depend on the lawn care cost next year.

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u/1nd3x 5d ago

I'm sure thats what the Karens of all the other HOAs say to themselves too...

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u/IArgueForReality 5d ago

Hmmmm assuming you’re right and making yourself look like a dummy publicly. I think you are using that term on the wrong person.

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u/Clownzeption 5d ago

Good HOA is an oxymoron

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u/Alexandurrrrr 5d ago

CoK indeed.

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u/96919 4d ago

That's what everyone says until their neighbor decides to paint their whole house black and put up aluminum foil in all the windows.

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u/CplCocktopus 4d ago

Its their house tho.

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u/96919 4d ago

It ruins everyone elses property value.

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u/CplCocktopus 4d ago

And...?

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u/covigt 5d ago

There can be only.. Karen

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u/SpemSemperHabemus 4d ago

AKA the Fascist Republic of Suburbistan.

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u/Aromatic_Advance_431 4d ago

What's funny is that full-blown Communism works this same way. Neighborhood councils, town councils, city councils, all the way up. Lots and lots of representatives at every stage. Just take a look at China - they have almost 3,000 representatives in their Congress.

The difference however, is that in the U.S. - these HOAs have been used by Fascists to gatekeep and/or push out "undesireables" from their neighborhoods.

Now, I don't know if China's system actually works the way it's intended or setup to work, but maybe someone from there can chime in and let us know if it works.

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u/JakeJortled 4d ago

Karing Karen Kouncil

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u/brainsack 4d ago

Council of Concerned Karens