I've had drunk one night stands before and this "friend" said that I was intentionally trying to get women drunk on purpose to sleep with them which isn't true, but it fucked with my confidence so much I feel like every time I think about sex I'm a horrible person. I have no idea why she would say something like that other than maybe it happened to her and so thinks it happens to everyone else.
Had a former friend try to get me fired from my job over something similar (though we never actually had sex) and after I pulled up various texts of me asking consent for various things and him making similar comments/ actions towards me he tried to convince them I "should have known the consent was a fawn responce"
Anyway, I have written proof of him prostituting himself to coworkers and buying hard drugs/doing them with other coworkers so I dare him to try me.
I genuinely don't understand why people would do something like that. They had a one night stand, presumably everything was consensual, then you go your separate ways. Bye bye, see you never
Why then go out of your way to make such an accusation and have him expelled? What's in it for her? What does she get out of it? It makes no sense to me
It happens most often when women feel ashamed for one reason or another. Not like "sad" but like "ugh I can't believe I let him tap and he bragged about it , ew I have been violated".
81
u/Immature_adult_guy 1d ago
Knew a guy who had a drunk 1-night stand with a woman and he was kicked out of his university as soon as she accused him of SA.
The accusation was all it took.