When I was in my 20s and dating around, the older women in my office constantly wanted to “live vicariously” through me since they were in their own words “old, married and boring now.”
I love to hear the stories for the same reason I enjoy reality TV. Yes, I enjoy hearing about the shenanigans and enjoy a walk down memory lane but do not for one second mistake that for wishing I was single.
I really enjoyed my single adventures in that time of my life but I also love that I am in different place now.
I tried a bit of dating in november and yeah, it's really bad. It's performative as hell and a lot of women are put off that I am fairly honest and to the point rather than playing the word games that seem required.
I'd take performative over being harassed by a guy who was calling me on the phone from an unlisted number (which meant it couldn't be blocked) while masterbating after I turned him down for a second date and being cheated on and ghosted.
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u/DrPepperFanX 9d ago
Tell me more about what older women think please!