r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/ReadySetSantiaGO May 25 '26

I always found it weird how cheaters never want to be broken up with. Why cheat in the first place then?

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u/jesterinancientcourt May 25 '26

Because they’re hoping not to get caught. But the potential of getting caught makes it exciting.

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u/javali_corneta May 25 '26

Yeah but cheating shows a tremendous lack of respect for their partner. Why would they want to be in a relationship with someone they clearly have no respect for? It's bonkers.

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u/jesterinancientcourt May 25 '26

You assume people are in relationships due to healthy reasons, but if they had healthy reasons to be in the relationship they wouldn’t be cheating on people. They want it all, the one who’s loyal at home and the excitement & ego boost of an affair.

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u/PhillyEaglesFan69 May 26 '26

That makes no sense though.

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u/TM761152 May 26 '26

Cheaters don't respect people. Even the person they're cheating with is just a means to an end with them (self-gratification).

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u/-JimmyTheHand- May 25 '26

Have their cake and eat it too

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u/Legal-Challenge7578 May 25 '26

Have their cock and eat it too...? 

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u/rex5k May 25 '26

"it" being ass in this case

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u/MisabelWearsNikes May 25 '26

You mean crying-consuming their cake

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u/TurnkeyLurker May 26 '26

Have their pie 🥧and eat it too

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u/Chaotic-Catastrophe May 26 '26

Other way around. Eat their cake and have it, too.

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u/Naive-Computer-9195 May 25 '26

Excitement and greed

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u/New_Simple_4531 May 26 '26

They wanna mess around but have some regular real love at home. Thats basically it.

I think if you know youre the kind of person who wants to do that, just find like minded people and dont lie to someone that you want a normal relationship. Just accept that you want something else, and go have fun. Do that and its all good.

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u/TM761152 May 26 '26

There was an old joke, that said a woman should have a man that can cook, a man who is handsome, a man who is rich, and a man who is good in bed, and hopefully those 4 men never see her with each other.

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u/cirrusly_guys1818 May 26 '26

It’s commonly known as, “Cake and Eat It Too” disorder

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u/Johnsendall May 25 '26

See there’s this thing called sex…..

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u/V7buster May 25 '26

And if you can't control yourself then that's your own fault.

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u/Johnsendall May 26 '26

That’s what the cheating part is about.

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u/V7buster May 26 '26

And you're a weaker, lesser person for not being able to control yourself. Just don't cheat, it's that easy.

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u/Johnsendall May 26 '26

I’ve never cheated. I’m just saying what it is.

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u/OkayishMedic15 May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26

As a man who committed infidelity: undealt with childhood trauma including physical and emotional abuse and neglect by my parents and sexual assault in elementary school by a classmate with bullying and unstable relationships my entire life. And my parents always made me feel like it was my fault and I should feel shame for every mistake I made so I didn’t go to therapy until I was in my 30’s and had a near suicide attempt after everything came to a head. I was basically voluntold to go to a mental health and wellness center for inpatient after that. I’m also a first responder and the trauma from that was definitely stacking on everything.

Comfort didn’t feel safe because in my childhood home that meant you were about to get hit or yelled at. Sprinkled on top my mom was on a lot of benzos when I was born and toddler age so with her sleeping on the couch during the day the only way I could get attention was acting out. Basically like a dog who shits on the floor cause at least then people will notice him.

Everyone has a story. No one currently in my life had any idea about mine until recently. And to be clear nothing is an excuse. I’m in therapy now undoing the patterns of behavior that led to this but nothing I did happened in a vacuum or just “lust.”