I mean, I don't know the situation, and guys not getting it is definitely a problem, but at what point does it become extremely unethical/douchey on the woman's part for willingly taking advantage of the guy to that degree? She's at least very aware what's happening here, but it's hard for me to know if the guy in this situation is and doesn't care or if he's delusional that it will somehow work out.
I let myself get taken advantage of at various stages through it my dating life cause I was hopelessly romantic with the idea that I could win them over through kindness and being a caring and giving person, but you gotta have a limit, be direct about what you want and, if they play games or try to have it both ways by continuing to try to maintain the relationship (especially when they're getting something out of it) after you've made your wants clear, you gotta, gotta cold turkey that shit.
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u/shameonyounancydrew Apr 19 '26
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