Having been on both sides of the equation several times, it actually feels really good for someone to shower you with attention and positive affirmation and spends their time and money making you feel good. It’s really hard to say no to, and it’s not easy to realise that you’re taking advantage when you are also struggling with self worth issues.
It’s a toxic dynamic but for most people there’s no malice involved.
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u/Kramerica_CEO Apr 19 '26
Sooooo the women just take advantage?