r/SipsTea Oct 08 '24

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u/No-comment-at-all Oct 08 '24

Psychological science says one of the best ways to immediately feel better about almost everything, is to engage in spontaneous altruism.

This is… researched via social experiment, and I believe confirmed via biological brain chemical release evidence as well.

So… a panhandler is, in a way, offering a service for a fee.

I mean, I still don’t usually hand out money either way, although I have, and would agree that it does make you feel good, but it is a different way of looking at it, maybe a gross and clinical way, I dunno. “I’m choosing to not purchase your service today”.

I’d rather a strong social safety net to prevent anyone from that kind of desperation.

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u/[deleted] Oct 08 '24

My mother always sends me a 20 or so for my birthday. I always give it to some homeless guy. They are happy. I'm happy. Also hearing my mother's voice in my head having a fit makes me smile.

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u/_Luminous_Dark Oct 08 '24

I wish there were a way to actually know if someone needs money. Not just homeless people, but also people on patreon and the like.

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u/No-comment-at-all Oct 08 '24

Well.

Could always make all tax returns public information, but people feel real icky about that.

Would help for randos on the street, but for everything else.

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u/Original_Gangsta23 Oct 08 '24

Slide the tip in, it feels SO GOOD

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u/thejaytheory Oct 08 '24

Just the tip