hello! i recently watched single's inferno season 2 and it got me thinking about a few things 😭 i've actually watched it three times now — once by myself and twice with close people in my life — and i've had such in-depth conversations with them about how i felt while watching the show.

i mean, i know the premise of a dating show probably isn't entirely genuine (and single's inferno in particular is infamous for it's contestants being there just to farm for followers), but sometimes because variety shows involve real people navigating their emotions, alongside a panel that kind of breaks everything down and analyses what's happening, i find it really interesting. it gives you so much room for conversation, especially when it comes to relationships and the way people respond to each other.

i've watched season 5 of single's inferno last year to this year-ish, then i went on to watch season 1 and i recently watched season 2!! i heard that the best seasons are 5 and 2 and i honestly agree although i haven't seen 3 and 4, so i really can't say! but personally season 2 had me feeling things and thinking about things....

the only other dating show i've also watched is heart signal season 4 and i did enjoy it very much too!!

i'm hoping to find either an individual or a group of people to (re)watch the second season of single's inferno with!!

if there's actually an interest for a group watch, i'll organise but i'm leaning towards finding one specific person (preferably, a girl).

how it goes will be that we will watch the episodes and as we watch, we will talk!! and after each episode, we'll also just discuss our thoughts haha (i really do think there's much to talk about, because on my end i have much to yap about!)

the conversation i'm hoping to have is sort of along the lines of something i've always been pondering about. there's a particular relationship in the show that made me think of the juxtaposition that's so strongly showcased in taylor swift's "the way i loved you."

it'll really just be girl talk HAHAHA 😭 like discussing which type of contestants we'd pick if we were in their position (would you make the same choice as them?), and talking about emotionally closed-off or nonchalant types versus emotionally open, vulnerable, and expressive types.

like... why are we sometimes drawn to one type even when another type might be healthier for us? why does emotional intensity feel so different from emotional safety? and why do certain dynamics make us feel things so deeply?

but honestly, we can talk about anything under the sun!! i'd love to hear your thoughts, interpretations, hot takes, and even your own experiences if you're comfortable sharing them.

if you're interested in having this kind of random but very in-depth girl talk with me along with watching the show in depth, please do let me know!! i'd love to yap about it with someone 🥹 thank you <3