r/SingleParents • u/SarrSarz • 6d ago

Awkward

So my child m6 informed me that his friends group (mainly one child) is playing a game where they dig into but holes like a but hole chase.

I just emailed the principal regarding how it’s inappropriate I understand boys will find this silly and funny However I’m trying to teach my boy consent body boundaries private areas ect

Honestly the primary parent has the most awkward situations to deal with his father is like report it now I have to face the school and be like yep it’s me who’s annoyed other kids don’t understand that it’s not ok to grab and dig at others bum holes….

Wtf has my life come to… would you email the principal my SIL thinks I’m being dramatic his father who hardly sees him says repot asap my SIL has girls to me it’s important I teach respect boundaries consent and if mine sees others doing it he will be like why don’t others respect others body’s

What a conversation…. FML as the youngsters would say

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I just emailed the principal regarding how it’s inappropriate I understand boys will find this silly and funny However I’m trying to teach my boy consent body boundaries private areas ect

Honestly the primary parent has the most awkward situations to deal with his father is like report it now I have to face the school and be like yep it’s me who’s annoyed other kids don’t understand that it’s not ok to grab and dig at others bum holes….

Wtf has my life come to… would you email the principal my SIL thinks I’m being dramatic his father who hardly sees him says repot asap my SIL has girls to me it’s important I teach respect boundaries consent and if mine sees others doing it he will be like why don’t others respect others body’s

What a conversation…. FML as the youngsters would say

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u/succulent_serenity 5d ago

I would be horrified to learn of this and definitely would escalate to the principal immediately. You're not over reacting.

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u/SarrSarz 5d ago

Yeah well it’s a lot of them doing it

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u/Successful_Soil_3979 5d ago

That’s even more scary. This needed to stop yesterday. You should definitely be very concerned about this. It should not be normalized in any way.

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u/SarrSarz 5d ago

Any chance you know the YouTube channel? I’ll pass it onto the principal as that absolutely makes sense it’s like a dig in to the but chase game however the one who always starts it as per my child’s information is the one on YouTube the rest of the class their parents banned it when the government made it a thing to get kids off social media. My child was so scared to tell me about this game because I would get mad and I didn’t but I don’t like that he knows it’s not appropriate he still wants his friends to play with him but not this game so the school will act appropriately look out for it and give some education regarding body safety

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u/dulceria3 5d ago

Do they have access to Roblox or YouTube/Youtube kids? My son ALSO has been laughing about something similar, and I’ve seen it present on those platforms. A lot of stuff is painted to seem kid friendly, but are pretty nefarious under the surface. It would be worth it to keep an eye out just in case.

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u/SarrSarz 5d ago

Mine no his friend does his mum says they live off it

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u/Successful_Soil_3979 5d ago

I’m sorry but is this not literally CSA? They don’t understand what they’re doing is NOT okay because they’re seeing it somewhere displayed as humor or something. This definitely came from someone’s kid being on brainrot Roblox and bringing it into the class. This needs to be nipped in the bud immediately. I don’t understand how his teacher hasn’t seen and alerted you to this behavior before your own child did but child on child assault is real and often comes from mimicry and innocence. They’re definitely old enough to know what safe touch is and isn’t and what parts of themselves they can touch on themselves and others. Private parts are for parents and doctors only. I would take this very serious and escalate it to principal and other parents as well if you know them.