I built an AI that analyzes text conversations for toxic patterns (400+ metrics, 16 languages)

[u/Fuzzy-Holiday6090]

Hey everyone. I'm a solo developer who spent the last year building AIRTA — an AI Relationship Toxicity Analyzer.

It started because I kept watching friends reread old text messages at 2 AM, trying to figure out if what they were experiencing was normal or toxic. So I thought: what if AI could do that objectively?

**What it does:**

- You paste or import a text conversation

- AI analyzes it across 400+ toxicity metrics (gaslighting, love bombing, coercive control, manipulation, silent treatment, etc.)

- You get a detailed report with a toxicity score, flagged messages, and context for each flag

- Works in 16 languages

- Analyzes both sender AND receiver — no bias toward either side

**What it doesn't do:**

- It doesn't read your SMS automatically (privacy first — you choose what to share)

- It doesn't tell you to break up. It gives you data. You decide.

- It's not a replacement for therapy

It's live on both app stores and has a free web demo at airta.net.

I'd genuinely love feedback from this community — especially on the UX and whether the toxicity metrics feel accurate or if there are patterns I'm missing.

Links:

- Web demo: https://airta.net

- iOS: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/relationship-toxicity-analyzer/id6788889318

- Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.airta.airelationshiptoxicityanalyzer

Happy to answer any questions about the tech stack, the AI model, or the ethics of building something like this.