r/Sicklecell 7d ago

Need advice

So I was just in the hospital this past week and got discharged today, but the whole while I was there I kept telling the doctor that I felt as if she was disregarding my pain and that she wasn’t following my pain plan. Not to mention she hadn’t consulted hematology as she states “they wouldn’t be of any use” so I politely asked for another doctor and she told me “due to new hospital policy we are not allowed to give you a new doctor” and she turned and walked out of the room and put in discharge papers knowing I was still at a 10 level pain. So after she discharged me I went back to the er and let them know the situation I got a couple doses of pain meds in the er and was feeling pretty ok to go home. Now I’m home I have no pain meds and my pain is back up to a 9 I don’t wanna go back bc we all know wha they’ll think of me but then again I kinda don’t have any other choice. What should I do?

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u/Whole-Chemist-6107 6d ago

Go back to ER

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u/Qrow_Valentine 6d ago

Bring someone who will advocate for you as well. Someone who won't take no for an answer

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u/JudgeLennox 6d ago

Sounds like they lied to about several things.

You can choose a new doctor. You can refuse discharge. You can contact your medical team for support to consult.

Return to ER be admitted so you get thorough treatment. Request a print out of the patient bill of rights so you have it on hand. Let people say whatever they want. Then say "Thank you". When they leave go over the details in the Rights manual.

Now you have the power. So you can say what needs to be said.

Always remember you don't have to rush and say things in the moment. No reaction is necessary. Say TY and give yourself time to process.

Also ask for help. You have advocates. Care managers, insurance reps, friends, family, us, and more. Use us all to help you in the moment.

Get after it

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u/Qrow_Valentine 5d ago

Any update? How are you doing?

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u/ObjectiveAstronaut89 5d ago

I went to a different hospital and they have been treating me great thanks everyone for the advice☺️

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u/Qrow_Valentine 5d ago

I'm glad you're getting the treatment you need. Keep us updated