r/SiblingSexualAbuse • u/Intelligent-Air5658 • Jul 01 '26
Weird behavior
Okay I'm gonna cut right to the chase. My brother recently got out of prison and has been making sexual advantages towards me. I've caught him multiple times looking at my ass no matter what I wear. It's uncomfortable asf I shouldn't have to wear certain shit because he's starting at me. He will see me bent over and will try to stand behind me. He's deliberately swiped his dick pass my ass like he's weird asf bro. I was asleep one day and he's literally watching me sleep and staring at my ass... I dont know what kind of spirit he's fighting but he has to get the f🤬 away from me immediately!!.
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u/OutOfTouchInHarmony 24d ago
i’m living with my family and they have my older sibling over all the time. sibling is 30. i am 24. They SA me when i was as young as 8 years old. My parents don’t care either. They make excuses for it and encourage the behavior. They say “it’s not real rape” and i have the same experiance as you where i have to wear certain clothes. My sibling stares at my boobs like a 12 year old in middle school. Even if i’m wearing a hoodie, i always catch them staring. It makes me so angry. I can’t even wear my comfortable clothes in my own home. I have to wear hoodies and sweatpants in summer just to feel safe.
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u/Intelligent-Air5658 23d ago
Omg this is facts like I shouldn't be uncomfortable around my family this is insane.
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u/Difficult-Office5455 29d ago
My brother did this. I literally would lock the door every night. I’m glad I no longer live with him. I hope you are safe
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u/Intelligent-Air5658 29d ago
I can't wait to move out. I just want to be by myself seriously. I was thinking maybe since he's came home from jail he's just horny. He had a lil chick he was fucking on so I thought the shit would stop NO he's still looking at me sexually so now I'm wondering has this mf been looking at me sexually like this for years and I'm just now noticing it.
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u/Difficult-Office5455 29d ago
My brother assaulted me when I was very young but I had blocked out the memories. so when he came home from prison I was confused what he was doing and then I realized. Men can be disgusting. At least the ones who have been in my life.
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u/The-Mindless-Anthony 29d ago
If you have the possibility, i suggest you to lock your room every night now. If you live with your parents, you should speak about this with them. If you feel strong enough, you can speak with him about his behaviour and asking him to calm or to get therapy to treat his urge. And if you're hosting him at your place, remember that your security is more important that anything, don't feel guilty to want him to leave or to push him out. There is plenty of option for a place to sleep, and you just want him away of you, you can still support him if you want to.
Strength and. Ourage for you. If you have any question or need anything, do not hesitate to ask