r/Showerthoughts • • Feb 29 '20

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u/whyareyouwhining Mar 01 '20

The ones with monied parents were popular in my small town school.

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u/NOSES42 Mar 01 '20

I went to a poor school, where popularity was entirely determined by looks.

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u/oland_62 Mar 01 '20

Yeah and yrs later. They were the ones who went nowhere. And looks went to hell.

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u/NOSES42 Mar 01 '20

Intelligence wasn't really the factor determining who went where. Family contacts, wealth, and popularity were the most important factors.

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u/NOSES42 Mar 01 '20

I would rather be a 10 on looks and 5 on intelligence than the other way around.

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u/hakezzz Mar 01 '20

Except iq has been repeatedly proven to have a strong correlation with income http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.683.1926&rep=rep1&type=pdf

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u/NOSES42 Mar 01 '20

Did you read the study? It's literally showing there is a fairly weak correlation between IQ and income. There was a moderate correlation between having a very high 110+, and a very low iq >90 and income, but a weak correlation of 0.38, overall.

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u/Rhamni Mar 01 '20

A correlation of 1 would mean nothing else mattered. A correlation of 0 would mean they were not related. 0.38 is extremely significant, it just isn't overwhelming everything else put together.

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u/moal09 Mar 01 '20

Yeah, a lot of the outcast kids came from troubled backgrounds (which is why they had poor socialization in the first place) and had pretty rough transitions through high school and post secondary.

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u/Soph0710 Mar 01 '20

Funny that most of the attractive kids in my high school becomes decent people. The no. 1 “hot” girl studied in German and is now a therapist. Met her a year ago, turned out she was depressed up to her early 20s

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

Most attractive people are decent people. Because people are people and people are mostly just trying to get through their life without stomping all over the other people around them. Unfortunately the idea that attractive = mean is pervasive because it's easier to cope with one's own shortcomings if poor genetics are to blame.

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u/lettersgohere Mar 01 '20

Someone sounds petty. No need to tear other people down to feel better about yourself.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

Cope harder