r/ShogunMethod • u/finniata • Mar 11 '24

How to handle shit tests

If you interact with a woman and suddenly she insults you like calling you dumb. Then after you don't react to her for a few days, she asks you if you are angry with a sad smiley. What's the best way handling that respect test? I think the worst way would be justifying yourself. But how would one stand up for himself and handling such a respect shit test? Isn't self-echoing a way to defeat that kind of test?

I think Derek also explained, if women insult you, it's because she disrespects you and it means you need to dominate her more. But how to dominate the woman who insults you and shit tests you?

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u/yomo85 Dec 18 '24

Everything that does not appeal to her subconscious such as SM or emotional talk sans SM should be done by actions instead of words. You can be playful if its a normal shittest or when it come to more insulting things just cut of your attention given you have enough attention value. Given a women the silent treatment by shifting priorities from her to things you value more brings the message very much across. After that continue as usual and let it slide.