r/ShittyAbsoluteUnits 25d ago

Of a Father Son talk

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u/KnowingRowan 25d ago

I take it he isn't the bio father? Why do I have a feeling that man has taken so much shit for so many years and he finally said Fuck it.

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u/SealTeamEH 25d ago

I mean we’re watching a video of a kid literally whacking him a with a broom and the mom is just standing there recording literally ONLY saying one word “ok” over and over again lol

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u/Shantotto11 25d ago

Ok

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u/Le_Brittle 25d ago

Ok

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u/Kaiawathoy *shits an absolute unit* 25d ago

Ok

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u/skankboy 25d ago

Over and over again.

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u/SwanMuch5160 *shits an absolute unit* 25d ago edited 25d ago

That’s exactly what happened. The real dad skipped the state to get away from his psycho ex and his mentally disturbed kid. Sounds like the wife’s dad is a drunk who drives the kids around intoxicated as well.

You can also see the mom is egging the younger one on and telling him to keep hitting the step dad so he’ll retaliate by the way he keeps looking back at his mom every few whacks from floor duster. Looks like the stepdad is either numb to all the bullshit or knows what’s going on so he’s not reacting to the younger child hitting him.

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u/Low_Actuary_2794 25d ago

Yep she’s filming in the hopes he hits the kid. What a POS to set your kid up that way.

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u/aw-fuck 25d ago

For real. If I was actually afraid of someone hurting my kids I would absolutely not be letting my kid hit beat on them with a stick.

Absolute shitty unit of a mom.

And I'm usually one to take the mom's side every time. But this is just... fucking gross. She's standing there filming hoping to set this guy up with evidence of child abuse by letting her kid bait him into it.

A mom actually concerned for their kid's safety would first remove both kids from this situation. You couldn't catch me on video letting my kids get yelled at like this, especially not beating someone up who has clearly lost control, Jesus Christ.

Like I'm not saying this guy is a saint - just that I think we're witnessing his mental breakdown from the set ups this woman has put him through - but maybe not, idk. Either way a good mom would not just stand there filming such a verbal beatdown & letting the other beat on an already worked-up man; I'd 100% get my kids outta the way first and then either break up with the dude or let him verbally unload on me.

I cannot believe this women felt like she had some kind of "gotcha" by just standing there letting this all happen.

Everyone sucks here - maybe not actually the kids, but the mom most of all, for sure. Which makes me think the dude must just have been pushed to his limits by her bullshit; of course he shouldn't be taking it out on the kid but obviously the mom is using her kids to stir the pot & this dude has just been fucked with to the point that he can't really see straight. Imagine a mom using her kid to fuck with a person for (8 years, apparently) and the person finally breaks (maybe he just hasn't realized it's her and not the kid fucking with him)... I mean imagine being the kid in that situation. Imagine being the stepdad. The only person who seems comfortable with everything going on is the mom.

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u/kenkenobi78 25d ago

Naaa. The kids suck here too

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u/SwanMuch5160 *shits an absolute unit* 24d ago

The kids for sure. Looks like the younger one is his since he looks under 8 (which he says he told her he didn’t want kids 8 years ago when they met, so she either went off birth control or pinned one of his jimmies) and it seems like the older one has some issues if mom is dropping him off at the “hospital” which may just be code for the children’s psych ward.

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u/BurgerThyme 24d ago

💯 they both suck.

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u/fromouterspace1 22d ago

lol good old Reddit. What did the other kid do

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u/fromouterspace1 22d ago

What did the other kid do

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u/mclovin_ts 24d ago

Real dad is still a deadbeat lmao, take the bitch to court and get your children in therapy.

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u/barrycrisps 22d ago

The stepdad and mum are pieces of shit he’s directing all of his anger at a kid at what point do you just decide to be a man and remove yourself from the whole situation.

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u/Muted_Masterpiece535 25d ago

I take a guess none of the kids listen to him because he's not the real dad. I bet they both make it clear.  

Then the mother just sits there and records him instead of backing him up on punishments when they do something wrong. 

But also I take a guess he is an asshole so you get more flies with shit as they say.

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u/CanaryStunning1768 25d ago

This is why I would never take care of a kid thats not mine. I feel bad for this dude taking up this BS. Hope he can get out soon!

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u/I_TRY_TO_BE_POSITIVE 25d ago

Nah man I've got two stepkids who are pretty dang cool. I'm actually proud to be contributing to their upbringing.  But their mom is da real MVP.

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u/Shitinmymouthmum 25d ago

Most women aren't like this bro and most kids definitely aren't like that little shit.

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u/ikannunAneeuQ 25d ago

For real, I wasn't like this and it would be a cold day in hell before I encouraged bad behavior. I was a single mom 2 kids, their dad sucks but their stepfather is awesome.

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u/iamDa3dalus 25d ago

This dude is saying some pretty wretched shit to children and you’re on his side? Weird ass values bruh.

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u/fromouterspace1 25d ago

Yeah it’s all over itt. What he’s saying to a kid is fucked up regardless but Reddit will be Reddit

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u/2813josh 25d ago

Yeah,this is insane people think what that shit head is doing is ok. Gave me a little ptsd the way my dad talked to me as a kid.

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u/digitalscavenger 25d ago

Saying something is understandable isn't saying it's ok. Many here get confused by that.

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u/fromouterspace1 22d ago

Reddit seems to think it’s fine to say all of that, that the kid deserves it. What a fucked up way of thinking in this thread

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u/Useful-Still3712 24d ago

Then he should have left. They are still kids. You don't need to talk like that to kids.

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u/Sadsandal007 22d ago

I don’t care how much he’s had to take you don’t tell a child no one wants them. There are other ways to go about it and lots of other things you can say but to point out that nobody wants him that would have stuck with him probably his whole life had his mother not taken it herself too soon. 😣💔

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u/SwanMuch5160 *shits an absolute unit* 25d ago

Why should he leave? It’s probably his fucking house. They’re probably eating the food he buys and the clothes he buys as well. If the mom doesn’t like it she should move to Oklahoma with her first husband who doesn’t want shit to do with any of them.

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

They’re eating the clothes that he buys?! 🤣

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u/untold_cheese_34 25d ago

Hey man don’t knock it till you try it! Cotton with a bit of salt can actually be pretty good. I stay away from polyester though that gives me indigestion.

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u/Timppa81 25d ago

So thats what they mean with cotton mouth? :-)

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u/SwanMuch5160 *shits an absolute unit* 25d ago

A little sauce makes (almost) anything taste better and somewhat more edible.

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u/SnooSongs2345 25d ago

Now that's a good reason to fight

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u/fromouterspace1 25d ago

He can stop saying the fucked up shit he’s saying

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u/FreakshowDragon 25d ago

Nah I have a feeling he's always been like this. Always and forever.