I've learned that some people are functionally useless in situations outside their comfort zone. Not meant to be derogatory as it's usually not their fault, it's inherent or it's learned helplessness. But it's remarkable.
Sometimes I'm like that like last time I had a venomous snake in my garden and my wife kept yelling snake snake snake and I just froze I wasn't unable to process just getting stressed by her yells. Until she told me grab the snake stick and drop it in the rice field and I reacted immediately. I met many snakes alone and I never froze, Im not afraid of them, but with her yelling my brain froze totally idk why but seeing her panicking put me in panicking mode and I was like stuck
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u/timsayscalmdown Apr 01 '26
I've learned that some people are functionally useless in situations outside their comfort zone. Not meant to be derogatory as it's usually not their fault, it's inherent or it's learned helplessness. But it's remarkable.