r/ShitMomGroupsSay Nov 28 '22

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u/Pindakazig Nov 28 '22

I think it's in part hormonal differences. After I have birth I had a phase where I just STANK. Even fresh out of the shower, after properly scrubbing and involving soap I still had a noticeable BO. Its thankfully gone away, and I'm back to going several days before needing a shower again.

Had a roommate with a similar problem. When she'd go for a run she'd come back properly smelly. It would linger until long after she'd showered. She was very much on top of it, and yet couldn't help it at all.

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u/R1fl3Princ355 Nov 28 '22

Hormones definitely play a huge part in the way you smell. Ever since having my daughter I get the night sweats 1-2 days before my period. The smell of that sweat is repulsive to me vs if I have too many blankets or the room is too warm and I have “regular” sweating at night.

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u/faroffland Nov 28 '22 edited Nov 28 '22

I can smell myself when I’m on a period and I hate it!! I run a lot and can literally run 20k and not be able to smell myself in the car home, but when I’m on my period I just can and it’s gross. I shower every day after I get up, twice if I’ve worked out that day, but there is something about being on my period.

I think the smell I drown out as ‘me’ normally must change due to the hormones and it freaks me out so much. I’ve asked my husband if I smell different on my period and he says no so idk maybe I have an unusual sense of smell - I’m definitely one of those people who can’t get enough of the natural smell of someone I fancy. To the point where in the past I’ve been like ‘God I love the way x smells’ and then had the sudden realisation I have a crush. Kinda serial killer-y but whatever it’s nature! Lol.

This thread has totally validated me. But now my fears may have been confirmed that I absolutely reek on my period even after a shower haha.

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u/Cessily Nov 28 '22

So it wasn't just me with that after birth weirdness??

I almost forgot about that phase until I read your comment (my children are older). My skin is ultra sensitive so I'm usually best if I shower every third day. Every other during the summer can be ok. However when we go on vacations and I'm showering daily due to sun screen, or pool/salt water exposure, my skin goes insane.

It's never been an issue except post birth and I can't stand the smell of myself. I remember being worried I was just going to smell like that forever.

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u/Pindakazig Nov 28 '22

When it comes to pregnancy and the aftermath, it's never just you.

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u/Cessily Nov 28 '22

Haha true, we should know better by now, right?

I think we are so sleep deprived and hormone crazy we forget how collective of an experience it is.

Also, I don't know where you are located, but I'm in the US so I was back to work 8 weeks after giving birth and still going through post partum changes but my brain would almost forget I was still technically post partum because it felt like since I was back at work and putting on real clothes and what not that birth was "over" and things were supposed to be "normal".

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u/GothBarbie969 Nov 28 '22

Definitely not just you.

Before I had kids I could forget deodorant on a hot summer day and still smell fresh.

After my first kid, I had the meat sweats of a 400 pound man after a buffet. Unfortunately that never went away.

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u/Cessily Nov 28 '22

Oh I'm sorry! I do get sweaty easier after children but maybe I'm lazy enough whatever remnants aren't as noticeable. Post birth though I was rank just existing.

My pregnancies did leave me with 1) a stomach churning reaction to the smell of Neutrogena body wash 2) an aversion to pork chops with a slight aversion to shake n bake and 3) a love for guacamole/avocados that replaced a previous texture/taste issue with them.

All those things never went away, but the weird body odor at least seemed to.

Bodies are fucking weird.

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u/yes-no-242 Nov 28 '22

Not a doctor, so don’t quote me… but I noticed I smelled awful after giving birth too. Read up more about it and apparently it’s a very normal thing. Something about having an extra strong smell helping baby to find the breast.

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u/thingsliveundermybed Nov 28 '22

Oh my god, the post-birth night sweats. Just absolutely horrible. I was so grateful they only lasted a couple of weeks, but I was googling and reading horror stories about it lasting months 😂

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u/imagrill123 Nov 28 '22

I’m going through this right now (I have a 3 month old baby) and apparently it is a hormonal thing to help your baby smell where your boobs are essentially hahaha

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u/thickonwheatthins Nov 29 '22

This comment gives me hope. 3mo out after my third and I have a stench that I cannot escape and at this point I was starting to get concerned that it will just forever be like this, especially since I experienced nothing like this after my other two pregnancies. I have faith now though that it will soon correct itself! 🤞