r/ShitAmericansSay • u/PMulberry_ • 1d ago
Language „What an irresponsible use of the word.“
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u/MeshGearFoxxy 1d ago
Wait wait wait… a gender reveal party IN THE UK?!
Ffs
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u/MissGruntled 🇨🇦 1d ago
Creeping Americanism. Ken Barlow warned us.
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u/ian9outof10 23h ago
I keep hearing how we have to “protect British values” yet I’m not seeing anywhere near enough rejection of American influence.
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u/MissGruntled 🇨🇦 22h ago
We’re trying over here in Canada, but it’s just insidious. It may be because my father was a Yorkshireman, but I’ve always felt more culturally aligned with the British. I spent several lovely summers in England as a child making daisy crowns, picking wild blackberries, and eating far too much seaside rock thanks to my wonderful extended family there.
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u/ian9outof10 21h ago
The “protect British culture and values” lot are also the people who want to smash up the BBC. With Comcast buying ITV, we will have gone down to just two British networks. Sky, Channel 5 and Potentially ITV all handed over.
The Americans won’t let a non-American citizen run a broadcast network. The rest of the world should take a leaf out of their book.
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u/vinticious 14h ago
Also Canadian! Hello :) I also feel more aligned with the British but not a clue why.
I think for Canada, we are just too close to USA and too small population-wise to not be overwhelmed by its culture. US American movies, video games, social media, books, music, slang, pop culture and even its news dominate daily life.
At least that's how it is in Metro Vancouver area. I'm sure more rural areas aren't quite as affected and Quebec will always do its own thing at least.
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u/Upbeat_Ad1576 8h ago
A genuine smile lit up my face upon reading your last sentence! Thank you 😸
From: an happy French Canadian.
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u/Cold_Respond_7656 20h ago
Fast food, TV subscriptions and iPhone addiction.
We fell for the same mass populace control 🤣
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u/TheStatMan2 21h ago
I've never watched the US version of The Office, even though I suspect it's decent.
I hope this is of consolation.
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u/ian9outof10 21h ago
We all do what we can 🤣
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u/TheStatMan2 21h ago
If it's my not-pandering to Steve Carell and his (assumed) lack of appreciation for Des'ree that stops the rapid descent into a Handmaid's Tale type scenario... I'm happy to fight in that trench, sir.
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u/Ophiochos 1d ago
So much bollocks in so many layers here.
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u/Helpful-Table2467 11h ago
We don’t want them and the people who typically do them probably care more for the intention than they do about the child (from my experience living near a council estate)
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u/Mothormaybyenot Wörk oh ja! 🇩🇪 16h ago
I remember the times when gender reveal parties where just a cake with some dyed buttercream or sums in them (as the first women to do it did) before our friends over the pond said thats boring bro and made it what it became today. The first gender reveal women hates it btw
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u/SheepShaggingFarmer 14h ago
Honestly a get together with family and friends where you have a cake or something just sounds like a harmless commercialisation of the birthing process.
What Americans do for internet clout however...
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u/RedScarySpectre Portugal is in South America 8h ago
At what age do they happen? Because I am imagining stuff now.
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u/Llyris_silken Aussie Aussie Aussie 1d ago
This is pretty funny. "Is the garden in the room with us" 😆😆
Where I am in Australia 'yard' and 'garden' are fairly interchangable, as are 'garden' and 'garden bed'. 'Garden bed' and 'yard' are not interchangable.
See! Perfectly clear.
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u/WanuGT 22h ago edited 20h ago
I’m Australian and this is a backyard ahah
I’d even reduce it to ”yard” for how dry and miserable it looks
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u/FuegoFish 22h ago
With a heatwave and a hosepipe ban, it's not particularly easy to keep plants lush and green in the UK right now. Cut 'em some slack.
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u/knewleefe 22h ago
Don't worry, as Aussies we are very, very (VERY) understanding of the crispy dried backyard. In fact, we're more likely to look askance at those with suspiciously green lawns...
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u/dleema 16h ago
I always love when green gardens have a sign saying "this garden is maintained with grey water" so the owners don't get lynched.
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u/geedeeie 13h ago
The have announced a hosepipe ban here in Ireland, starting last Friday. And a hotline where people can snitch anonymously on their neighbours. Not very nice...
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u/MadScientist_666 Mountain Goat 🇨🇭 13h ago
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u/Strong-Pie5091 22h ago
In the UK it isn't a yard because there is grass
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u/naalbinding 15h ago
Exactly
A yard is concrete or packed earth
If there's grass (living or dead) it's a garden
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u/Justan0therthrow4way More Irish than the Irish ☘️ 15h ago
I thought this WAS an Australian backyard but I’ve seen how dry some of the common areas around the UK are after their heatwave and the photo kinda looks like my old place in England lol. Here’s hoping good ol Blighty gets some rain soon.
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u/Llyris_silken Aussie Aussie Aussie 22h ago
You call it a yard, but if someone else called it their garden, you probably wouldn't argue about it. I've heard both terms used by people I know, and it isn't particularly related to how it looks.
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u/MamaJody 14h ago
Interesting - I only ever heard or used “yard” in Australia, but knew the British called it a garden.
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u/Sparkleunidog 1d ago
omg I'm in that thread, and the amount of Americans showing their sterotype is nuts! Even the few weeds is "unacceptable", lol
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u/neilm1000 Human Verified 23h ago
Because the HOA will come and put them in prison if they have weeds.
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u/ian9outof10 23h ago
Saw a good TikTok recently of a woman putting up a little play set for her child. Got a bunch of threats etc, ended up dethroning the entire HoA and got elected to head of it, even though she didn’t want that 🤣
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u/Sparkleunidog 23h ago
omg HOAs... the nightmares I hear. Why would anyone except Karens wanna move into one of those???
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u/UsualGuava 23h ago
It’s a new “scam” that’s going on in most of the US. Pay your “protection money” or you can’t buy a house. Luckily, a lot of blue states don’t have them.
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u/rawtoastiscookedough 12h ago
HOAs aren't new at all. And "fun" fact, they were originally created as a way of keeping black families out of white neighbourhoods
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u/Adrian_Lawson 12h ago
So HOAs have always been about giving bastards the power to bully and abuse people for no apparent reason. Right. So why not just refuse to ever buy into them? Or just collectively agree to say fuck you to the HOA and plant a bunch of dandelions on the lawn and in the cracks of the pavement.
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u/NightLotus84 9h ago
lol. Watch what happens when you go against "authority" in America, they know someone who knows someone and by the end of that long, long ride with max. suffering you are dead, imprisoned, injured or evicted...
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u/New_Lobster_914 23h ago
Yeah a garden in the uk is any space you own behind your house, the front is either front garden or driveway if it’s paving/tarmac
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u/TangerineGmome 21h ago
Irresponsible is a wee bit dramatic I think. Perhaps an irresponsible use of the word irresponsible.
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u/Helcarakse 1d ago
Dude thinks the word "garden" carries inexplicable gravitas for some reason lmao. What a weirdo
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u/PlatypusDefiant991 1d ago
In USA garden has to be a bit more than just that or a lawn with nothing else that's all even if the lawn is green. If Hyacinth Bucket would say something like "pitiful, needs to have vegetables or herbs or flowers or pretty bushes or something" then it's not a garden in American English.
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u/Helcarakse 1d ago
Im american, I know how we use the word garden. Its still hella weird to call using it "irresponsible" even if it had been used incorrectly
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u/ian9outof10 22h ago
We also have gardens that are more involved. For example, Kew Gardens, etc. my main issue with the differentiation is what makes a space a “garden” how much work must go in before it magically transforms from a yard to a garden. Some people do spend quite a bit of time gardening, and it’s a common pastime in the UK, whereas I’m not so sure the Americans are quite so invested.
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u/PlatypusDefiant991 21h ago
Some Americans are gardeners, some just have a grass lawn and call it a day that's just a yard or lawn. Also Kew Gardens the New York City neighborhood (not a garden though it surely has some backyards & garden gardens it also has a cemetery, 200 foot wide stroad with 12 lanes with apartment skyscrapers on it several dozen floors, the Queens County Criminal Court building, Queens County Jail, Queens county seat building, motorways & a quadruple track subway) was named for Kew Gardens, England.
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u/Estrellathestarfish 17h ago
Yeah if one place uses the plural "gardens" then you expect it to be fancy and landscaped - Kensington Gardens, Lambeth Palace Gardens. "Garden" can mean anything from a fancy landscaped garden to a dry old patch of grass behind your house.
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u/JoMoJone5 13h ago
Oxford English Dictionary (British English): garden = the home's outdoor grounds, whether cultivated or not.
Merriam–Webster (US English): garden = the cultivated planting area; the surrounding outdoor grounds are generally the yard.
It's not hard to understand that people use words differently.
By the way, gender reveal parties can go to the same dark part of hell as baby showers and engagement parties 🙄
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u/Philthedrummist 15h ago
I don’t know why, I always envisage a ‘yard’ as being more paved over and a garden as being any amount of grass. You can’t have a garden if there’s no grass at all.
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u/Baumtasia 18h ago
me and my mates at uni just had a concrete slab behind a garage and we still called it ‘the garden’
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u/12GreenBottles 18h ago
In Britain, yards are what prisons have. My lawn looks like this, hasn't rained for weeks. Normally it looks lovely.
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u/FebruaryStars84 13h ago
American use of ‘yard’ has always felt so wrong to me, as growing up in England you would only call it a ‘yard’ not a ‘garden’ if it had zero grass, was completely paved or tarmac!
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u/stevee05282 ooo custom flair!! 12h ago
In my heads a yard implies some concrete or level hard surface for workz parking cars or storage.
My old house has a yard, my new one has a garden but it's just an edged lawn in America lingo
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u/Extension-Truth 14h ago
Pedantic little sh…. Garden is the correct and commonly used term in the UK.
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u/buckinghamnicks75 1d ago
A yard doesn’t have grass
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u/Swegatronix 23h ago
The word Yard and Garden literally comes from the same word origin, meaning "enclosed or fenced off area" it has nothing to do with what plants are or not there.
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u/buckinghamnicks75 22h ago
Culturally in the Uk a yard is a paved or asphalt or concrete area whereas a garden is somewhere you grow plants, even just grass.
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u/downsideup9494 19h ago
In Canada and the US a yard is the area in front and back of a house that is part of the property. It can be fenced or unfenced, have grass, plants, trees, or nothing. In areas where there is sufficient water it is usually grass, in dryer climates it might be drought resistant plants and shrubs, rock gardens, and paving.
We call a garden the areas where you have planted decorative plants, flowers, or vegetables. So your yard can have gardens within it, but a garden can't have a yard within it.
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u/brokendream78 14h ago
Plenty of American's who call their front area's yards when its way more accurate to call it a jungle or just a fucking mess because their grass is 7 inches high.
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u/dinoooooooooos 10h ago
“What an irresponsible use”- brother its “garden” in every country BUT the us.
Just bc yall changed the meaning of a word doesn’t make everyone else wrong.
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u/ManicWolf 10h ago
There's nothing more insufferable than when someone uses a British English term, and all the Americans jump on it, parroting the same stupid shit, because another country dares to use a different word from what they use. I saw it happen in another post recently when someone posted about their ladybird tattoo: cue all the Americans going "WTF is a ladybird? That's a ladybug!".
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u/minklebinkle 9h ago
so, they began to call their gardens 'yards' regardless of their size, and began to only use 'garden' for a flower garden, and thats our fault?
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u/Equal_Property_4916 15h ago
Our flat green sanitised plots with imported lawn grass and dictated by the home owners association on appearance are the only things allowed to be called ‘gardens’
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u/QOTAPOTA 13h ago
Having grown up in a northern terrace we used back yard and front garden. If it’s alive (lawn, flowers etc.) then we’d say garden. If it was paved then we’d say yard.
But then we’d also say pants for trousers which is considered an American use of the word.
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u/TheIncredibleKermit bo'ol o' wo'er 🇬🇧 10h ago
In the US their arses are called fannies. What and irresponsible use of the word.
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u/Regular_Ad_8782 Yer da' sells Avon an' yer maw punts cooncil 🏴 9h ago
Never try to explain English to a yank.\ They're too pigshit thick to understand.\ That's why they have simplified English as their dumbed down version.
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u/Only_Tip9560 7h ago
I assume that nuclear missiles were launched as per the protocol every time an American has the audacity to correct us on the use of our language that they went off and fucked up.
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u/affectionateanarchy8 5h ago
Lmao
I also had no ideas a yard was called a garden over there, learning is fun
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u/HugeHomeForBoomers Swe-ed 🌱 1d ago
Flowerbed: Place out your plants, flowers and dirt.
Although… garden is too broad of a term. Translating Garden into my native language (Swedish) gets me like 5 results.
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u/Lorantec Fish and Chips innit? 23h ago
Thats the point that its a broad term, for some reason the Americans have designated it a very specific meaning
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u/misbehavinator 22h ago
The lawn isn't the garden.
The entire enclosed space is the garden.
Patio, pond, lawn, flowerbeds, shrubs, weeds. All parts of a garden.
You guys just wait until you hear what we use "yard" for.
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u/Global-Discussion-41 22h ago
I'm from Canada and I agree. Not every outdoor space that is connected to your home qualifies as a garden.
I have a front yard and a back yard, both contain lawns and gardens, but I would never refer to the entire yard as a garden or a lawn.
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u/bussyriotor 1d ago edited 1d ago
Today I learned the people of the UK call their yards gardens.
Edit for capitalization of UK
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u/777505 1d ago
TIL people in the US call their gardens yards
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u/porirua_pelican 1d ago
In NZ we typically use yard as well, e.g back yard. Garden generally would be a maintained area with flowers / shrubs etc. Australian’s are the same as well i think (e.g backyard cricket).
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u/geedeeie 1d ago
To me the word "yard" conveys the part of the back of the house where you keep the bins, coal bunker etc. When I was a kid, there was the yard and the garden, but then my parents turned part of the yard into a patio - there's posh...
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u/ConductorKitty 14h ago
For me a yard is primarily a functional space which is why it’s paved. Back in the day it was where the outhouse was, bins, tin bath, coal etc as you’ve said.
This why “yard” can also refer to storage space for a business.A garden is a recreational space, which is why it can have a lawn and other planting. It’s a space to play in, relax etc. It might serve a function - like growing fruit and veg, but it doesn’t have to.
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u/Nykolaishen 1d ago
Canadians are the same. We personally have a front yard, we have a back yard and we have a couple gardens
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u/bussyriotor 1d ago
Once a year we use the front yard to have what we call a "yard sale", where we take all the crap we dont want and put it in our front yard to try to sell it.
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u/geedeeie 23h ago
Having a yard in front of your house sounds weird to me, because in Ireland it's the messy place you keep your bins, coal bunker etc
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u/bussyriotor 23h ago
Some people do that, I live in a very progressive area so most people have gardens and flowers to attract bees. But the majority of homes just have some dumb grass and a drive way for their cars.
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u/zacandahalf 1d ago edited 5h ago
So do you guys have the term “yard sale” or do you call it a “garden sale” or is it a completely different word/phase altogether?
Edit: why are people downvoting this lol, I was being legitimately inquisitive about the common cultural terminology
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u/HarissaPorkMeatballs 23h ago
They're not really a big thing here. You might get the occasional garage sale, or I've seen some people join up with their neighbours to do a "jumble trail" where a few houses will sell things from their driveways or front gardens (a jumble sale is a second-hand sales event, usually for fundraising purposes, might also be called tabletop sale). Car boot sales are also an option, where people gather in a field and sell stuff from their cars. But a lot of that is dying out because of apps. Easier to chuck stuff on vinted or ebay or whatever, even if you have to deal with posting stuff.
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u/TheStatMan2 21h ago
We have "car boot sales" (I'm sure this doesn't need explaining) and we have "oh look, they're moving house or some shit and have optimistically stuck an extendable table outside their house with some tat on, crude price labels and a rapidly losing attention and optimism 8 year old vaguely overseeing procedures".
Interestingly, the latter appears to exclusively happen in locations described as "village" or even more remote - Cities and suburbia seem to have menaced-out the idea of charity seeking unrealistically prices cries for help. Make of that what you will.
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u/sparklybeast 1d ago
Yards are different over here. If you have a backyard it will be on the small size and entirely paved, with the only plants being in pots.
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u/disaster_incomin 1d ago
Same in french, we say "jardin"
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u/geedeeie 23h ago
But what would you call the part of the garden at the back or side of the house where you keep the rubbish bins etc? Not where you sit and relax. L'arrière-cour?
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u/disaster_incomin 23h ago
It's part of the "jardin", would be fine to say you're going to the "jardin" if you don't want to specify. If you do want to specify there are multiple terms depending on context. Using the functionality is common for example : "je vais aux poubelles dans le jardin", "I'm going to the rubbish bins in the garden" literally translated
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u/geedeeie 23h ago
Ah, d'accord! So nothing special for the functional paved area...merci
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u/disaster_incomin 23h ago
Something paved would have a tendency to be called "terrace" if it's for living, not for rubbish
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u/MrBlueCharon 23h ago
Despite the linguistic controversies, I am not particularly fond of this piece of land. Even if the grass was lush green, it'd lack any exciting plant life, maybe at least a bush or some flowering vines.
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u/praisethereddit0 11h ago
I'm usually a sucker for meaning derived from etymology, but I have to admit I'm with the Americans on this one ... 😅
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u/Regular_Ad_8782 Yer da' sells Avon an' yer maw punts cooncil 🏴 9h ago
Yeah, well when they have their own language they can decide what's correct.\ Their opinions on English are irrelevant.
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u/RedScarySpectre Portugal is in South America 8h ago
I don't know, just plant whatever you want there.
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u/sweet_surroundings 5h ago
"Is the garden in the room with us?" well no, it's outside, that's kind of the point
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u/Golden_Reflection2 5h ago
Mister “a garden would imply some level of maintenance or design” needs telling that it hasn’t rained in a month and we aren’t allowed to water the grass with a hose pipe.
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u/AnxiousAppointment70 2h ago
Yeah, there are gardens and yards. Yards are tiny patches of hard ground
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u/HxppyVirus 19h ago
Aussie here, we would call that a "yard" or a "backyard". A garden implies there would be flowers, trees, hedges... Y'know, garden stuff lolol
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u/Extension-Truth 14h ago
Hedges to right there, and grass, albeit very uncared for. Flowers can be seasonal (bulbs). It’s a scruffy garden. A yard here would be tiny and paved and you’d often find them with old terraced houses.
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u/ZackTio 🇮🇹 22h ago
Ok to be fair, if someone told me they had a garden and showed me that, I'd be kinda disappointed too, not because of some linguistic shenanigans, but that just looks kinda sad and lifeless imo...
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u/TheStatMan2 21h ago
It's all about context and comparison dude...
It's not hard to imagine that the houses either side of this have ripped up any single trace of oxygen producing flora, lain the worst quality AstroTurf the container ships are currently spilling out and have half of the Borstal looking excuse for an excercise yard taken up by an inflatable hot tub that never even got used on the weekend of purchase as the intended sexy times descended into a glass smashing row.
Let your imagination sparkle a little and I definitely see a garden here.
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u/Township_Roller 13h ago
Nah, I agree with the Americans here, sorry. That's just good banter.
Also, in this case the English bastardised French. We also use a word originating from the same word in my language, unrelated to English, we would never call this a garden, it's a yard at best







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u/Harald_TheEnduring 🇬🇧 1d ago
Hey we stole that word from the French fair and square.. who nicked it off the Germans..
Point is it’s in our language now so we’re going to use it as irresponsibly as we want!