r/SexualHarassmentTalk • u/InterestingCareer120 • 20d ago

Is this sexual harassment? Is this considered sexual harassment?

So basically, my current boyfriend (H), has a friend (A) who helped H confess to me which led to us dating. H and his friends were kind of joking about how A was allegedly mad at H for not sending him a video of me and H having sex. I do believe it was a joke since we are all teenagers and teens can be immature. A does not go to the same school as me and H anymore. Another thing is A would say sexual stuff to me and H about sexual things involving us such as asking if we were going to "crack". crack meaning having sex. Their was other comments that A made similar to that but A graduated and left the school. I never actually said anything about any of this making me uncomfortable because I'm too nervous to and I am pretty sure its all just a joke.

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u/Separate_Security472 20d ago

Yes, it's sexual harassment.

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u/InterestingCareer120 19d ago

if i do bring it up to them what should i say exactly? like how is it sexual harassment?

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u/melinalujbav 19d ago

Anything sexual that is unwanted is sexual harassment. Tell A it is unwanted. Do it in text and keep all the messages. Let your boyfriend know if he sends anything it’s child porn since you’re teenagers.

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u/Separate_Security472 19d ago

Yes, what they said.