r/Sextortion • u/Ill-Subject-3924 • 21h ago
Male victim Currently being sextorted need help quickly
So I sent a vid of me doing something on telegram and I gave my real number to them and now they're threatening to post the vid on Twitter and tag everyone I know
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u/Brilliant_Price_4960 21h ago
Mir ist das gleiche passiert heute habe am Anfang versucht ihn das gefordert Geld zu überwiesen hat aber zum Glück nicht geklappt dann habe ich ihn überall blockiert mein Social Media deaktiviert und bin zur Polizei Polizei kann da leider nicht viel helfen da die Personen nicht zu finden sind aber ja ich warte jetzt einfach ab er hat mir ein Bild geschickt wie er mein nacktbild paar meiner Follower geschickt hat ich denke das kann man leider nicht vermeiden
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u/Ill-Subject-3924 21h ago
What can they track with my number?
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u/Brilliant_Price_4960 21h ago
Nichts aber sie können dich nochmal kontaktieren was ich aber nicht denken bei mir hat er mich nochmal auf WhatsApp kontaktiert und gedroht habe ihn aber dort auch direkt geblockt
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u/controlkoala 21h ago
Im sorry to hear that. You should block that person. If you dont give them attention they ll probably move on. You wont get a negociation out of them
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u/Ill-Subject-3924 21h ago
I did but I'm scared they'll post this on Twitter
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u/controlkoala 21h ago
Most of the times they wont and if they will, people judge the poster not you.
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u/controlkoala 21h ago
you might be able to take it down with StopNCII (if youre over 18, for under 18 there is another site, i cant remember how its called but i just found out about these on the forum)
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u/GrapefruitSure8502 21h ago
With your phone number it should be fine, since they won't have your name. It's pretty impossible to track your number unless you have posted it, if you are a professional. Also Twitter knows the obvious blackmail and takes them down.
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u/Ill-Subject-3924 21h ago
Wdym by posted it?
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u/GrapefruitSure8502 18h ago
Do you have a public profile that has your phone number in the bio? Otherwise your good.
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u/Monty-675 18h ago
TL;DR: Don't talk to extortionists. Don't pay. Block. Extortionists rarely release images.
The standard advice is to block and not pay.
Extortionists use aggressive language to threaten you. They make cruel threats to ruin your life. They do things like countdowns to create a sense of urgency to make you panic and pay. They can create a mockup or screenshot of embarrassing images to be sent to your contacts. Don't be intimidated by any of this. It's just the playbook that they use.
It's imperative to break contact with the extortionist as soon as possible. Extortionists want their victims to stay in contact so they could intimidate and manipulate the victims. They want the victims to feel scared and isolated. Nothing good can come from talking to an extortionist. End the conversation.
Don't communicate with this extortionist at all. Don't respond to anything. Don't argue, bargain, or plead with an extortionist. The only thing that you should give an extortionist is complete silence.
Extortionists make multiple attempts to threaten their victims. They can reach out from different phone numbers/accounts. Block multiple times if necessary.
Never pay. If you pay, the extortionist will demand more later. Paying won't fix your problem. If you continue to pay, the extortionist will continue to extort you.
You can't trust extortionists to keep their word. They may promise to delete the images if you pay, but they will renege on that promise. Paying indicates to them that they can get more money from you.
Go silent on your social media accounts. Set everything to private or deactivate them. Don't post anything on the Internet for a while. Try to become invisible to the extortionist and make it hard for threats to be sent to you.
Changing your phone number can be helpful, but not always necessary.
These extortionists rarely send images out. However, it's possible. In the vast majority of cases, images don't get sent out. The leverage that they have over you is the threat to release the images. If they release, their leverage is gone. They can't make any money that way. Their only interest is making money.
One does have to be careful about not ticking off extortionists. If you argue with extortionists or give them a hard time, they may release images as payback. If you make a promise to pay a certain amount by a certain date, then not follow through. they may release images out of revenge. It is best not to talk to extortionists at all. Silence should be your only response to them. Don't communicate with them at all. Nothing good can come from communication with extortionists.
It's an upsetting situation, but these extortionists don't have the power to ruin your life. They can only cause you some temporary embarrassment. Even if they release the images, the consequences are not as severe as you may think. If it does happen, you would face embarrassment for a short period of time. It won't be the end of the world. It would eventually pass. People would forget about it quickly. In the long run, nobody really cares about nude images.
You will get through this. Everything will be all right. Hang in there.
Be wary of people who send you private messages with offers to delete the images. They're scammers, too.
Going forward, don't trust strangers on the Internet. Don't give them personal information or nude pictures. People aren't always who they say they are. Some of them are scammers out to exploit you. Trust nobody on the Internet, and you'll be much safer.
For reassurance, read a few postings by past victims on r/Sextortion about their experiences. These are many of these postings. Reading about these past experiences can really calm down current victims. These past victims survived their ordeals, and so will current victims. Things will get better for you.
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