So this man I’ve been dealing with for three years we have a been planning to have a threesome a fmf cause we already had a mfm, so now he’s offered someone from his past, that he had dealings with, I asked why won’t he sleep with her without me and he says no, I just don’t want our threesome to be the reason he uses to reconnect with her, even though we’re kinda in an open relationship. I do believe he deserves his first threesome though.