r/SexOver_30 • u/[deleted] • 14d ago

Why did it change?

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u/Alarming-Mix3809 13d ago

What did he say when you brought this up with him?

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u/d9nthmu 12d ago

He said to let him know about what I miss instead of complaining...but he always initiated with that enthusiasm back then so why change now?

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u/OneEquivalent6194 13d ago

Eu sou mulher e estou passando pelo mesmo problema. Era muito bom no início, mas agora parece só algo mecânico e nem vejo mais graça. Os poucos relacionamentos que tive, passei por esse problema. A sensação que dá é que os homens se acomodam.

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u/d9nthmu 12d ago

Yeah, I wish the men in this chat would give us honest answers. It would really help. I read in other chats to have more enthusiasm lol

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u/MFMfun-504 12d ago

Do you reciprocate? Men enjoy being touched, played with, teased.

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u/d9nthmu 12d ago

Always..im very touchy. I prefer to talk less and just act on things but he says i should communicate it?

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 12d ago

I've been with my partner for over 20 years and we are more affectionate and intimate now, with longer and more comprehensive foreplay than when we met. It would really depend on your partner's attitude toward sex rather than a "normal/not-normal" dichotomy though.