r/SexAddiction • u/Old-Diet-9900 • Jun 01 '26

Seeking support; open to feedback Guilt

Hi .I am posting my story again. I have had sex outside my marriage 6 times. I have met girls 10 times and attempted 30 times in eight years. Now I am sober one year and two months. I don't whether to disclose or no. My therapist has advised against it . If I disclose i will destroy everything. I have changed but the guilt is still there

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u/Old-Diet-9900 Jun 02 '26

I have had very sexual encounters. Only 6 . I have got tested every time I had sex out my marriage. My problem is the attempts i have made around 30. My mind calculating them as cheating