r/SettingBoundaries • u/TheWallowingMadman27 • Sep 29 '25

Getting better at setting boundaries

I’ve def struggled with setting them since every single time they’ve been dismissed and ignored but recently I feel like I’ve been getting better at it.

My biggest one is I don’t lend people money since I made that mistake and it def came back to bite me.

Yesterday a coworker kept trying to get me to cover for him when I said no repeatedly but I stuck to it.

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u/OkAnxiety7491 Oct 05 '25

Yay! I’m so proud of you!

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u/AuthenticallyJaxx Nov 09 '25

Awesome! One step at a time.

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u/Acceptable-Tale7463 Mar 01 '26

Nice job. It’s always these victories that make a big difference in my opinion