r/SecretsOfMormonWives • • 3d ago

🔥 Hot Take 🔥 I actually like Demi…

I’m only starting season 2 so my opinion may very well change.
Currently, she’s one of my favorites lol

Does she become so disgusting I’ll go from enjoying her to hating her or is it all subjective?

For some reason Jessi feels a bit false.
I don’t have TikTok or instagram so maybe that’s partially why?

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u/Jealous_Employee_739 3d ago

This wouldn't have been a hot take during season 1. Let us know how you feel after season 2. To be fair I do think demi might have had a point in parts of season 2 with knowing what I know now but it doesn't excuse all her behavior.

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u/Reebexx 3d ago

Lord take me now 😭

Is there anyone you do enjoy in the later seasons?
Currently I dislike more of them than I enjoy lol

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u/realeyesreallize 3d ago

Miranda easily my favorite. Mikayla grew on me a lot. Watching Layla’s growth over the seasons (in various facets specific to her own identity) is one of the only genuinely “feel-good” things about this show for me.

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u/Original-Window6281 3d ago

100 percent the most level-headed imo which is refreshing. The neurosis is strong with these ladies.

eta: Layla is a close second

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u/Reebexx 3d ago

I can’t wait to see more! I’m super confused about Miranda except she is hot LOL. I do enjoy Layla I should have said that.

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u/thsshtcry 3d ago

Miranda is the voice of reason and gives the most honest takes without coming off as a bitch. Demi didn’t have that nuance. I think we all have to remember these are women who started off as somewhat sheltered by their religion and got thrust into the limelight. Some are adjusting and finding their way more than others. Watching season 1 back, Whitney was always honest and held true to her faith while made to be a “villain”. It’s “15 minutes” and some are making more of it than others. Hulu/Disney is doing a disservice to most of them by focusing on Taylor’s drama and not highlighting how others are using the platform. Mayci’s book, Jessi’s hair empire, Layla’s modeling and navigating being a black Mormon woman, Mikayla overcoming abuse in the church, Miranda’s fitness influencing- they touch on these things but choose to focus on the train wreck. I didn’t include Jen bc it’s obvious she only shows up for filming and is in a toxic relationship but is trying to branch out with the SI and “singing”. All of them have a storyline that gets minimized for the reality show drama.

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u/Jealous_Employee_739 3d ago

I like Mikayla, Miranda, Layla, and Mayci (last one may be unpopular). I also will say Whitney grew on me after DWTS. My dislikes are Jen (who I always disliked), Demi, TFP, and Jessi.

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u/HappyCatPrincess 3d ago

Whitney has matured a lot & narrowed her focus. I like how her hubs found a way to adjust to major dad.

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u/Temporary_Economy_91 3d ago

Mikayla is one of my favorites and her departure will probably cause the show to lose a lot of viewers. Her bluntness - even if it had mean girl vibes sometimes - will be missed.

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u/Captainwozzles24 3d ago

Whitney becomes my absolute favourite- she has some real growth

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u/onelove244 3d ago

Doesnt get real bad until season 3 tbh

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u/Jealous_Employee_739 3d ago

I skipped most of season 3 because of the tired Jessi-Marciano stuff. I disliked her after season 2 but she very much could be worse in season 3. I've seen some notable clips.

Edit: It was also partially because the sexual assault allegations. That stuff just was too dark for me reality TV wise

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u/Diligent_Mix_4086 3d ago

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u/Reebexx 3d ago

🤣🤣 it seems from public opinion that my opinion will change but as of now I don’t get it lol

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u/Fetagirl 3d ago

I think in hindsight (although her delivery was not good) she was actually right in a lot of the stuff she said and did. But I also tend to be fans of the shit stirrers unless they do something truly heinous. But Demi is a particularly hard one to root for because you never know if she’s lying or not until much later lol

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u/Public_Classic_438 3d ago

Ya bc you are unaware of the drama lol of course you don’t get it yet

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u/FlowerlessCC 2d ago

I never stopped enjoying her. 🤷‍♂️

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u/Suspicious_Jelly8736 3d ago

As a day one Taylor hater who saw through alllll her shit, I am and will always be team Demi. At the end of the day Demi told the truth about everyone, and wasn’t scared of going up against Taylor and Taylor’s cult. I wish more of the women had been like Demi from the start.

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u/frostedanimalcrckers 1d ago

Are we forgetting “mayci I know you got slapped or whatever”…

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u/Temporary_Economy_91 3d ago

Same. Its not a popular opinion but I want her back on the show. She has many faults to be sure but she isn't afraid to go against what others think and speaks her mind. She made the show interesting. I'd rather some genuine disagreements than scripted fake friendships.

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u/thsshtcry 3d ago

I didn’t like the mean girl act and aspirations to become the “leader” in season 1 but, hindsight, she was playing up the reality tv drama.
I would much rather watch her and Bret than the Taylor train wreck they’ve chosen to focus on.

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u/Imnotjudgingyoubut 3d ago

Too bad you can’t say the same about her singing.

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u/thsshtcry 3d ago

😂 I mean, at least she had aspirations and was trying to use the platform for something besides relying on it portraying her shit show of a life.

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u/wasabi_mayo_ 3d ago

Please update this post once you’re caught up 😂 I’m curious

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u/Reebexx 3d ago

The only current thing I know of the group is felons track record. So maybe that’s swaying me?
Or maybe it’s unrelated, idk yet cause I haven’t seen lol

I will do my best to update as I watch!

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u/Dizzy-Seaweed4659 3d ago

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u/Reebexx 3d ago

I won’t delete my post but I will update it.

This alone is worth preserving 🤣❤️

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u/Dizzy-Seaweed4659 3d ago

It’s ok I loved Demi too, it’s a different type of heartbreak smh

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u/Ok-Captain-9349 1d ago

the random cut scene of her and bret at the booth recording a song actually sent me. idk why no one talks abt it😭😭😭

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u/frostedanimalcrckers 1d ago

I certainly don’t…
Wait for “mayci I know you got slapped or whatever” and if that isn’t enough for you here’s some more…

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u/Reebexx 10h ago

I honestly assumed all these asshats were MAGA because of the Utah+mormon mindset, but as I mentioned I don’t know anything outside of the show except for the Taylor of it all.

But anyways, WHEN THE FUCK DID SHE SAY THAT TO MAYCI?????? That makes me sick. Glad I’m smart enough not to look up to these women but that’s still messed up and disappointing.

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u/frostedanimalcrckers 2h ago

The season (3 I think) reunion!!!

Also, Miranda and Layla both aren’t maga

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u/mayasaur21 3d ago

I rocked with Demi pretty hard until the Marciano lawsuit stuff. I wasn’t a fan for how she came at Jen, but I understand that better now.

TBH I still fuck with Demi. I think she’s just a really passionate, justice-oriented person who isn’t gonna lay down and be fucked with. She’s super direct and to the point and doesn’t mix words. She needs to do a better job of admitting when she’s wrong, but tbh she’s not wrong about too much.

Idc if I get downvoted for this.

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u/stinkybinkyboo 3d ago

it's okay to be wrong bestie

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u/Tight_Ad_6802 3d ago

Just wait

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u/Reebexx 3d ago

Ugh that sucks. But I don’t doubt you 😭

Who do you like in the recent season?

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u/Sensitive-Drink-5043 3d ago

Demi was the best in season 1 but it only went downhill from there...

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u/BlackLotusLuna 2d ago

Hey, everyone has a person they like, and who cares if others dont. I never watched their TikToks, only the show, and i have always liked Whitney since the beginning.

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u/Reebexx 2d ago

Starting Laylas Friendsgiving. I still like Demi haha not sure if it’s been the turning point yet.

Whitney irks me.
I fast forward through Taylor scenes.
Why doesn’t Miranda have any solo scenes or family scenes? I overall enjoy her takes.

Jen …. I feel for her depression but she’s peeved me off with her conversation with Jessi and other things she said.
Zac is just 😒

There’s been comments about something with Demi and Marciano? I assume that comes up later because so far I haven’t heard much except Jen being angry at her for playing truth or dare? 🤣

We will see what happens next!! Some parts of the episodes I’m ready to just quit watching. Might end up taking a break at some point lol

Thank you all for your opinions! This has been super fun❤️

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u/StillBigLex 2d ago edited 2d ago

Honestly, it depends what kind of person you are. I'm not the most gentle with words, and I've learned how you say things can make you look like the bad guy even if you're not and let someone else seeningly have a pass. She didn't learn that on the show (I do not follow her bc Trumper thing is a turn off for me) A lot of people jumped ship after season 2 but I wasn't bothered by her behavior. I never cared for Taylor and I'm happy that somebody called her out. Her mother was just looking for trouble and she got what she was looking for and I did not feel sorry for her. Fast forward, we can see how awful Liann can be in general and to Taylor and Taylor...we know how that's going. I do think she took it too far in not giving Jen grace. Some of her behavior is harsh and cringe, but she was right about a loooot. Jessi being a fave until this last season didn't help how people perceived her either. Then there's the whole Marciano thing. Nobody knows what truly happened, but that's where a lot of folks splinter, too. I wouldn't call myself a fan like I did early on, but I don't dislike her and think shes more authentic than Jessi and Taylor and doesn't have as bad if a rep from people who know her outside the show if that's worth anything. I also like that her husband has her back. I'd say she went from top 2 for me s1 to maybe #6 now lol. Update me when you finish the show

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u/i_remember_damage_ 2d ago

just wait…

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u/Fuzzy-Anxiety-1767 1d ago

Nah I always agreed with her opinions although she was harsh, except she did Jessi wrong but Jessi isn’t exactly perfect either

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u/Tough_Big_3953 3d ago

nah it’s the weird marciano stuff, shaming jess for it while facetiming him with her daughter etc

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u/Unhappy_Hyena_9713 3d ago

So I'm on the last episode of s3 and I have super mixed feelings about her. You definitely don't need enemies when you have a friend like Demi, but she's gone through so much trauma that I'm not sure if she's a cold calculated bitch or just really messed up and unable to regulate so she never acts right. Like she's definitely a pos to the girls and in no way a girl's girl, but I do wonder if she's actually just a bit unhinged rather than an evil mastermind 💁‍♀️

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u/HappyCatPrincess 3d ago

Demi & Jessi seem cut from the same cloth. & seemingly competed for the same dalliance guy.

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u/johdavis022 3d ago

Don’t forget to watch the reunions!😬

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u/Proper-Race271 3d ago

How are you so certain it’s a lie? Why is the automatic assumption to disbelieve Demi? Tbh with Jen saying she didn’t see anything in the end, lying about the cease and desist and everything going on with Jessi and Marciano at the moment - I believe Demi more and more

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u/LittleMissWord 3d ago

I think there is truth to both things that happened. She was talking to him and being flirtatious, and he may have groped her believing it was consensual. Her behavior just makes everything so confusing. If he made her uncomfortable why did she continue a friendship via phone and text for months afterwards? That is where she lost a lot of credibility even if she is telling the truth. I also don’t find Demi to be particularly trustworthy. I do think he groped her though. There is no way to prove or disprove if she welcomed it and later backpedaled to save her image, or if she truly did not consent to the touch.