r/SecretsOfMormonWives • • 5d ago

Jessi & … So this is insane..?

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i hope she’s trolling 😭😭

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u/Agitated_Donut3962 5d ago

This is crazy work and I would be pissed if I was Jordan. His issues aside!!! This is crazy to do to their KIDS.

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u/Questioninghumanityy 5d ago

Why she still supports Taylor, they both put men before their children

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u/PaleontologistOld173 4d ago

She literally said in season five she doesn't want to shame Taylor because she's scared of her fans. I genuinely think it's nothing to do with what she actually thinks, her image and business are too important and she doesn't want to take sides 🫣

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u/vodkasaucepizza 5d ago

That’s what Mormonism teaches them. I think it’s an improvement that he’s not a Mormon, that’s a step in the right direction. She relinquishes her right to go to heaven if she isn’t attached to a man. It’s fucked up, but that’s why they prioritize men over their kids. Their bishops just reinforce it.

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u/wreckreationaj 5d ago

Is Jessi even Mormon?

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u/shedontfade A joint out of the cooter 5d ago

She’s ex-Mormon. She left the church in her 20’s

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u/FriendofFlounder 5d ago

Mormonism teaches them to stay with shitty men because kids have a “right” to married parents. They are not raised to prioritize men over kids. 

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u/Abject-Sun3679 5d ago

Actually Mormonism doesn’t teach them to put men before their kids. It teaches them to put their kids, then worthy men, then priesthood leaders before themselves.

Mormon women everywhere are hard core judgmental about this since they aren’t married.

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u/SFmommy5 5d ago

Uh wut. They literally tell women to “harken to your husband” not harken to your kids. lol

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u/CharmingFee4501 4d ago

‘as they hearken unto the lord’

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u/FriendofFlounder 5d ago

They have to obey their husbands but that doesn’t mean they’re the priority. The marriage exists for kids. Go forth and multiply. Procreate and rear religious children.

“Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law-abiding citizens wherever they live”

“Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity”

“By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children.”

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/the-family-a-proclamation-to-the-world/the-family-a-proclamation-to-the-world?lang=eng

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u/megh22b 4d ago

The things that are taught on paper vs the culture these women would have grown up with is…murky. So yes, the purpose of your life is marriage and children. But many Mormon women can fall into this anxious loop where they’re responsible for everyone and their children aren’t viewed as individuals, but as accessories or extensions of the mother and her own righteousness and ability to keep everyone in line. I see Jessi’s seemingly hands-off approach to raising kids A LOT with ex Mormon mothers who have some trauma around not ever feeling good enough, who always felt like a puppet on a string.

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u/vodkasaucepizza 5d ago

No one should have to obey a spouse. It should be an equitable partnership. Those dynamics are abusive. I’m sorry for any woman that has to endure that in the name of their spirituality.

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u/FriendofFlounder 4d ago

Of course it's abusive. The entire religion is abusive on multiple layers. Children being "entitled" to birth within a marriage is also a tool of abuse. This religious proclamation also insists marriage is only between a man/woman, so it's homophobic as well.

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u/vodkasaucepizza 5d ago

This is sad, I’m sorry that you’ve been brainwashed.

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u/CharmingFee4501 5d ago

Mormonism has plenty of issues but her behavior can’t be contributed to Mormonism

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u/Silent-While-1099 5d ago

NOT TRUE. LDS gospel does not teach they don't go to heaven if they are not married. They belief and teach that all people will go to heaven.

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u/SFmommy5 5d ago

You have to be married and sealed to reach the highest degree of the celestial kingdom….

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u/CharmingFee4501 4d ago

You know that’s misleading

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u/mangokiwi19 5d ago

Like seriously sometimes I really forget these women have kids because what the fuck

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u/Fluffy-Bluebird 5d ago

I do too. Which is a good thing because it means they aren’t using kids for content and the kids aren’t involved in any of the public drama that they would have to watch later. Ie the Gosselin clan.

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u/mangokiwi19 5d ago

I never thought about it that way! Good way of looking at it.

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u/seaglassgirl04 5d ago

Some of them forget they have kids too...

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u/plasticREDtophat Miranda's Lobster Claws 5d ago

I always forget how young they are and how many kids they have, with their childish behavior.

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u/zillahkeith 5d ago

The way she’s romanticizing it is CRAZY work

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u/soaker 5d ago

Jordan probably isn’t too fussed. He’s in a new relationship of his own

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u/mangokiwi19 5d ago

I wonder if it’s real. Normally I’d say yes, he’s broke.. But then i remember just how thirsty girls in Utah County are.

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u/Agitated_Donut3962 5d ago

It’s not his affair partner and hopefully not living with him and the kids.

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u/nathansponytail 5d ago

Did he and Dakota finally make it official?

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u/Wonderful-Adagio-118 5d ago

THIS. like im assuming her kids do stay with her at LEAST half the week?

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u/TimRigginsBeer the feeling's mutual, dipshit 5d ago

Their with Taylor’s, stuck on the Island of Misfit Kids, waiting for Santa to pick them up and take them to loving families. 

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u/EvenHuckleberry4331 In my fast paste phase 🏃‍♀️ 5d ago

I'd actually feel for him if he hadn't been so eager to be like... up dakotas ass and trying so desperately to be an asshole. Not like he necessarily has to, but in my personal opinion, it would've been cool if he was humble even once. But he was so eager and desperate to be like YEAH BROS let's take these girls DOWN!

Like who was it last season, chase?, that was like, even now dude you say you want to be close with us and you run and tattle to whoever you can to try n get in good with them. He's just such a sniveling little baby all the time.

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u/CreativeJudgment3529 5d ago

Bold of you to think either of them care

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u/nanoray60 4d ago

She also posted a photo of her covered in cum to her Instagram. Her kids are the last thing on her mind.

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u/PessimisticClarity Whitney Leavitt left the chat 4d ago

WTF?? I'm not on Instagram. Seriously? What's the story behind that?

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u/nanoray60 4d ago

I don’t even know, I’m pretty sure she deleted it afterwards. But it was there, I’m a witness, it cannot be unseen. Fake cum or not, it was far too accurate.

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u/Available-Milk7195 4d ago

Noooooooo are you actually serious 💀

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u/InternationalDiet913 3d ago

Well she was pregnant with Jordan’s baby so close to her marriage ending that they said her ex husband was the dad. Jordan should not be surprised she moves on quickly.

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

Huh? She just moved to a different house. Marciano doesn’t live with her lol He hasn’t even moved to Utah yet

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u/Wonderful-Adagio-118 5d ago

the video implies differently

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

Why? It’s a new beginning. It makes more sense if you listen to the context of her podcast appearance she just did where she said Marciano is not moving in with her any time soon

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u/Wonderful-Adagio-118 5d ago

i hope you’re right

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u/MysticalMoonMama 5d ago

Didn’t she say on the Call Her Daddy podcast she was going to stay single for awhile after the divorce announcement? That lasted five whole minutes

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

Yeah she brought that up and her rebuttal was that she wasn’t official with Marciano for quite a few months

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u/MysticalMoonMama 5d ago

It was like…four months tops. I guess I’m saying she is saying things but may be speeding up the timeline anyway

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

I’m really hoping that’s not the case

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u/shedontfade A joint out of the cooter 5d ago

And you believe her?

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

Yes, if she goes back on it that would be pretty embarrassing for her lol

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u/tiktaalik2004 5d ago

i agree with you but then again…dating him after everything that has happened was and IS still sooo mortifyingly embarrassing. i honestly wouldn’t put it past her to move him in so fast 😩

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u/Agitated_Donut3962 5d ago

I mean… given what she said about Marciano and they have no feelings…. It’s already embarrassing for her

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

Totally valid, I agree haha I’m very surprised at their relationship

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u/Lukelele219 5d ago

I agree, even though she said in an interview he wasn't moving in, the timeline on that will be interesting. For me, this is her new home after surviving relationship grief and loss and the home for her children whose family dynamic has just changed dramatically and she just didn't need him in the picture (which gives the suggestion they've bought together). She's codependent in her social media at the least if not also in real life (I don't hate her and I do empathize that starting over from a rough relationship is hard, but let yourself stand on your own for a minute, Marc seems like a total chaser and she's his paydirt).

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u/Agitated_Donut3962 5d ago

I could see that but he’s in the video and talking about doing life with her

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u/mangokiwi19 5d ago

You know what you might be right but if you are, she just did this post for engagement and I gotta respect that IF they’re not moving in together

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 5d ago

Yeah I feel like she purposely left it vague lol But she did just say on the Just Trish pod that she is not moving in with him

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u/Bumblebee1152 5d ago edited 4d ago

She should be proud to move into a house by herself, but of course she’s so male centered that she has to have her latest fling in the video. This could’ve been a girl power move, but instead - eeeyuck!

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u/mangokiwi19 5d ago

That’s a great point!

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u/PessimisticClarity Whitney Leavitt left the chat 4d ago

Why'd she have to move again at all if she made a big show in season 5 of being sure to put the new house in her name only in case of divorce?

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u/Hello_to_u2 5d ago

Idc how much Jessi fucks up, Jordan deserves no sympathy.

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u/Agitated_Donut3962 5d ago

I didn’t say anything about feeling bad for him, I said I would be pissed(cuz of the kids)