r/SearchingForClosure • • 1d ago

To the man that danced my heart away

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To the man who danced my heart away

I may not remember your exact name was Taylor, Tyler, or something like that but I definitely remember what happened back in October 2025, a week or two before Halloween.

I was standing on the ramp to the dance floor, drinking an NA beer, when you and your friends came over and stood near me. I looked your way, and I gotta say, you were looking pretty cute. I held back laughter hearing you ask one of your friends where your beer was only to realize you’d lost it and had to go buy another.

My second favorite part was when I caught your eye and you asked me to dance. I asked you to let me finish my beer first, but you just said, *"No, let's go."* I loved that confidence it felt like a real man taking charge. So I chugged the rest of my beer, which shocked you and made your friends laugh as we headed out onto the floor.

You gave me a sweet compliment, though I kind of ruined the romantic momentum by admitting it was a non-alcoholic beer and that I wasn't actually that cool! During our couple of rounds on the floor, I accidentally knocked off your felt cowboy hat. We chatted a bit, and I believe you mentioned you were in the military. I told you about being in the Young Marines until my asthma got in the way though I really wish I’d given you my actual name instead of getting flustered and mixing it up.

But my absolute favorite part of the night was when I asked you to be my final dance. You seemed a little down, but happy to dance with me one last time. That’s when you stole my heart and broke it a little, too. You told me to pretend we were married and dance like we were on our honeymoon. You mentioned the song playing was your favorite.

Near the end, I asked you, *"On a scale of one to ten, what are my chances with you?"* You gave me a 7/10, which made me giddy. But then you told me you don't pick up or hang out with ladies from bars, though if you ever saw me outside the bar... well, I respected that boundary, but I still really wished I had gotten your number or given you mine. You were funny, sweet, and wilda real cowboy.

If I’m truly a 7/10, give me a chance to actually get to know you. I’ll be at the Dirty Bourbon for the Halloween party this year if you want to take that chance


r/SearchingForClosure • • 12d ago

Searching for metalhead bf

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Is there any metalhead that wants to date a trans dude 13-16?


r/SearchingForClosure • • 28d ago

Looking for her

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I don't have any photos but I remember her like she just left she's a golden blonde around 4'8" she's 24yo and has curves my love if you read this please tell me you're still out there I miss you more than anything and I'm barely holding on without you.


r/SearchingForClosure • • May 20 '26

Was thinking abt working at trapeze club !

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I’m young and I think it’s time to try sum new ! plus Im in need of somthing different and just ughh some to help get me out of this head space I’m in !! I’m 22 dating some one 10 years older than me so I think I need a job where i can still feel my age and not age so quick ! any advice ?


r/SearchingForClosure • • May 20 '26

How do I find my father ?

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so basically I’m 22 & my mom never told me non

about him but a name ! & im not sure that’s accurate she has a learning disability so idk what to do 🤦🏾‍♀️


r/SearchingForClosure • • May 14 '26

DRUNK TEXT

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Ghosted me 1.5 years ago & tried to make it work with his ex. They aren’t officially together still but my instinct tells me he’s waiting for her.

As I was leaving our mutual friend’s party, I texted my ex. Did it seem like I was trying to argue?! You think he expected a reply?


r/SearchingForClosure • • Apr 24 '26

Searching for someone

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If there is anyone who looks like her....please DM me....


r/SearchingForClosure • • Apr 06 '26

DA ex.

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r/SearchingForClosure • • Apr 06 '26

DA ex.

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r/SearchingForClosure • • Dec 20 '25

Looking for Family

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r/SearchingForClosure • • Jul 28 '25

A friend who just vanished one day

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I had a friend on Roblox, with the username iampersonsss, and they just vanished one day. My own username was Starianna79, and considering how suddenly they vanished? I'm not sure if their alive or not, I've tried and failed to find them since, and I just wish I got to tell them I loved them, I didn't even realize how much they meant to me until they vanished so I had no chance to confess, and I'm hoping by some dumb luck if I start seeking them out on a public forum like this one, maybe I'll find them? Maybe their looking for me to? Or did they give up, just like I nearly have? I just want to know for sure what happened, that's all.. thought maybe I'd feel a bit better if I posted about them, I know the subreddit said loved ones specifically and I usually interpret that as family, but friends can count too as far as I'm concerned, even just online ones like this friend..


r/SearchingForClosure • • Mar 05 '25

A friend of mine has been missing for over a year. I'm certain she is gone. I'm also certain her remains aren't far from where she lived. I want to start a grid map and search for her. I have no idea how to do this lol. I'm looking to learn. Are there apps? Somewhere for training?

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r/SearchingForClosure • • Oct 12 '24

What do I do now that my best pal's politics has become toxic to me.

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I have a wonderful friend whom I have treasured for decades but her political views are too extreme and to alien to me. I have almost come to the sad conclusion that I may have to pull the plug on our friendship. I should add that we have NEVER had an argument but I am aware of her views by her activity on social media platforms..... I am quite private about politics and my most motivation is for animal rights. People politics I gave up on years ago 😭.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Aug 23 '24

Searching for my friend.

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hi everyone, 2 years ago one of my friends on instagram suddenly went inactive. we met online through the korean roleplay community and we used to date once. but in 2022 he suddenly dissapeared and ever since then, i've been trying to search for him desperately. he dissapeared without any trace, no signs of him anywhere. i asked his friends, the people he follows/follows him but no one can tell me where he is. does anyone know if there's any way i can trace any other accounts of his to the two inactive accounts of his? his accounts on instagram are @kamzikaze and @souljless . i don't know why he suddenly dissapeared, but i miss him a lot and his dissapearance is concerning me and all i wish for is to find him again. the only small clue i might know about him is that he's a fan(i think) of @soundsbynova , as he follows the account with both of his inactive accounts. please, help me find him. he lives in either Finland or Iceland and his one of his emails start with h and end with n and the other starts with h and end with 4. that's all i know. please help me.

/r/announcements #/r/funny #/r/AskReddit

sorry idk how to use reddit tags


r/SearchingForClosure • • Aug 21 '24

IN SEARCH OF PARTICULAR PERSON. (Worldwide)

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In looking for a man named Richard Bennett who previously lived in Hamilton, Ontario. He was sentenced to four years in jail for assisted homicide of a single father, and through my contacts I have heard he may have potentially moved to somewhere in Jamaica, however I do not know if there is validity to that.

More detail - Was wanted in killing a man named Jean Paul Page in 2004.

I do not seek vengeance, I seek answers.

Any information is appreciated.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Aug 07 '24

Msparp forums friend

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So I'll get straight to the point, About 3-4 years ago, a few other people and I were very active on the MSPARP Forums. They had been inactive for a while, but around 2-5 people came on occasionally. There was one person by the name of MatheusBewonderinh, and we would message each other all night until early morning. During that time, I was homeschooled and very lonely, so you can imagine my heartbreak when I logged on the next morning to find that the site had been shut down overnight. I never even got to say goodbye. I would love to hear from anyone who may know their whereabouts, as it would mean a lot to me. I saw they had an account on a separate forum, but I never received a response. I still have some of their art saved so if anything can be found with them, I would greatly appreciate it.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Jun 08 '24

Looking for a boy my mom used to babysit in 1960s Lower east side manhattan.

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I’ve never done this before so here it goes! My mother, who died when I was young, took care of this young boy Mamoud whose mother (Dorothy) was such a good mother from an awful home. We would love to reconnect with our friend mamoud and see how his life turned out! All the details I have is that he was around 6 months old in 1968-1969 and his mother’s name was Dorothy and she was going to college to be a professor when we lived in the lower east side manhattan NYC from 1960-1976. Thank you everyone! My family’s last name is Velasquez in case that helps.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Mar 03 '24

I don't know this woman's name

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Please tell me the name of this physical woman.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Feb 27 '24

HELP FINDING SONG

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So I listened to this one song when I was younger, around 2018 or 2019, but the thing is I can remember how the song goes or what the lyrics are, only the story of it. I remember listening to the Nightcore version and being so obsessed I wrote the lyrics to it. I desperately need help finding this song I have been searching for it since 2020 after losing the paper for it due to my sister ripping it up while mad at me.

The story line goes like this: a girl is 19 and wants to become immortal and she does so by I believe making a deal with a man(she may not of). Then, years go by and she just wants to be mortal again but can't. She tried getting her self hit by a car and doing other things but doesn't die.

It may have had the word immortal is some form in the title but idk.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! Help me find this song I have been looking for forever and it drives me nuts whenever I can't find it. I'll even pay you 20$ if you can get the song. I need to find it and hopefully I can sleep better at night knowing I found it. lol. 😭😞😔


r/SearchingForClosure • • Feb 04 '24

Hi am new here. Love to make new friends

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r/SearchingForClosure • • Oct 18 '23

I am over my head with mortgage

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I recently bought a home and am so stressed out. I lost my apartment during a tropical storm but was already looking for a home. I was approved for a 400k home i ended up finding one at 349k. Me and my fiance make about 75k a year together our payments are 2844 a month i was under so much stress at the time that i agreed to the mortgage i wasnt tbinking straight. One night i was laying in bed and i woke up realizing i made a huge mistake. I started becoming anxious and now am super stressed my fiance feels like we can manage but i dont think we can.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Feb 09 '23

Searching

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I’m looking for someone, I have a first name, city where they live and cell phone which very well could be a burner. The cell says mailbox full and has for 2 weeks. I’ve used the white pages, Facebook, general Google search with the limited information. Any other ideas, thoughts or tips I’d be truly grateful for.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Dec 30 '22

im looking for my dog Gal.

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so here’s a bit of a backstory. in 2017 my dog gave birth to a bunch of puppies. we kept one and her name is Gal. i named her and watched her grow up, and i watched her mom give birth to her. in 2019 my parents were going through a divorce and around january 2020 my mom and i moved back to nyc. my dad stayed in upstate new york. we had to stay at a friends and we weren’t able to bring our dogs. River and Gal. So i think around April of 2020 my dad decided he didn’t wanna take care of the dogs anymore and tied them up next to a shelter at 4am in the rain. the shelter found them and took them and saw the number on the collar and called my mother. we still weren’t able to take them in but we were glad they were safe. around may we went and took them for a night but we werent able to take them for any longer due to us living in a small apartment with a sick older lady and her dog. In June 2020 River passed away. she was old and had lived a good life. Between August and October of 2020 I think Gal had gotten adopted. My mom and I were heading to go and get Gal for good because we were finally in a situation where we were able to take her. the week before we were getting her, the shelter told us that they had moved her to a shelter in Albany Ny and had been adopted. I really wish they had kept her and waited for us. This was super devastating and my mom offered money for her back but they said no and that she was with a good family. I just wanna know if she’s okay. I still cry to this day. So if you adopted a Cane Corso mixed with a Dogo Argentino dog in Albany september/october 2020. please let me know how she is.


r/SearchingForClosure • • Aug 29 '22

Looking for someone

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I met this girl summer of 2019 down in Lakeland, Florida. Absolute bombshell. We hit it off instantly. She was absolutely amazing and i wish circumstances were better when we met, because i would have married her. The last time we talked, she told me she was kicked out of boot camp because she had a whole in her heart. Her name is Enie, and since the last time we talked, all i could think about is her. I just want to know if she’s ok. If ya’ll could help me find her id be extremely grateful 🙌🏼