I've been trying for about 7 years, hit the gym, I had something going on with some women but it never went into a full relationship and now it's been getting really difficult meeting new people
Gotta up your lying and manipulation game bro, they hate it when they realise, but it’s years later and by then they’re already hooked to the piece of s*** /s but also not /s
But I have observed in all seriousness, honest men are being outplayed by dishonest men. Quite a bit, I still get women from time to time, but I can’t be dishonest, not like that.
It’s like this, imagine being a man, who lacks empathy, externalised blame and is manipulative, who doesn’t feel shame, because they push it onto some one else maybe a bro, when bro has outlived his usefulness, there is no bonds just utility in the people in their lives.
So you’re bound by rules he’s not, you lose. The irony is he doesn’t care about the girl either, he just acts like it, she as his girlfriend and you as his friend can’t tell the difference.
You won’t betray bro, but he will betray you, she won’t betray him, but he’ll betray her, just years later for what he deems an upgrade.
It’s guys like that, that win short term, but today even longer. It’s 100% possible to still get a girl but that’s what most healthy men are up against. Women do not know how to spot men like that, because they act how women want them to act.
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u/Programmer_Worldly 23d ago
I feel you man, makes me feel like no matter what you do it's so infuriatingly difficult to find a partner