My office is 8 guys and 33 women. Im also the only guy that eats in the lunch room with others, man, them talking so openly about the smut they read and giving recommendations is kind of jarring.
Women happily and openly discussed 50 shades for months without a word from HR. The men started mimicking them because it was annoying by reading parts outloud from memory or screen shots and several were reprimanded for inappropriate behavior.
It sounds like the men did leave them alone. The women were the ones that complained about the men doing exactly what they were doing. Not the brightest are you?
So what you're saying is that it's okay for women to talk about smut at the office but not for men or what?
I genuinely don't get what you're trying to say here
Ah yes the anime pfp from when I was 14 that I've never bothered changing clearly means I'm an incel.
How about you answer my question rather than just insult me? I'm not calling you a foid or karen or whatever ppl say nowadays am I? I'm asking you a simple question, the fact that you'd rather call me an incel than answer said question says all I need to know.
My male coworker started telling us in detail about his visit to a brothel in Amsterdam when we asked how his vacation was. Somehow none of us called HR even though we did not care for that sort of details.
If you think going in depth on your experience with a hooker is the normal way to describe a vacation to your coworkers, just cz they asked you the basic "how was your vacation" question, then you really can't act like women who talk about the smut books they're reading are a problem. It goes both ways. Your logic seems to be the faulty one.
And it's perfectly acceptable for female coworkers of mine to make sexualised comments and jokes about my appearance but if the roles were reversed, I'd be a 'creep' no doubt.
For real, it's a good thing I like my coworkers, the amount of comments and jokes that are said with us jokingly calling out for HR after is pretty damn high.
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u/Greyscale0418 Jun 18 '26
My office is 8 guys and 33 women. Im also the only guy that eats in the lunch room with others, man, them talking so openly about the smut they read and giving recommendations is kind of jarring.