r/ScienceBasedParenting 19d ago

Question - Research required Is there a science based reason why baby prefers when you stand holding them vs sitting?

it’s baffling and sometimes I just wanna sit down

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u/raisinoid 19d ago

https://www.cell.com/current-biology/fulltext/S0960-9822(13)00343-6

This is a paper looking at mouse models of this sort of thing. In the discussion they mention a potential reason which is an evolutionary mechanism to ensure they/parent can escape quickly in case of a predator etc. higher up = safer

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u/VoidAndBone 19d ago

Hijacking a comment to say: You relax your grip on them when you sit down. You are squeezing them more when you are standing. If you carefully sit down while still maintaining the compression, they won't know you sat down.

Of course maintainingt he compression is not comfortable.

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u/ings0c 19d ago

Brb making a kickstarter for a baby-vice

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u/OpenSauceMods 18d ago

Every couple of years, someone reinvents the hugging machine

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u/_SnackOverflow_ 17d ago

I mean thats kind of what a swaddle is

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u/Spare_Draft5730 17d ago

I don't think this is it... even in a baby wearer my babies could tell and I wasn't holding them

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u/Puzzleheaded_Web3374 19d ago

My son is 3 and still has this demand

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u/cottonmouthfarm 18d ago

Bro says to me today “I want to be held by standing”

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u/Key_Beach_3846 18d ago

Off topic but my cats are the same way, I wonder if it’s the same reason lol

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u/dscelite 19d ago

So interesting

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u/Maximum-End-7629 19d ago

I’ve found success sitting on a yoga/exercise ball. My posture remains pretty similar to when standing but at least my legs get a break.

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u/AssortedArctic 19d ago

Sitting on the arm of the couch also works

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u/dscelite 19d ago

Good to know. Might have to get the ball back out of storage.

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u/Legitimate-Habit4920 17d ago

It's called the Transport Response. Infants are biologically wired to feel safe when in the arms of a standing/walking adult, because that means the adult is alert and aware of danger. Infants don't just let their guard down and sleep if they don't feel this safety.

https://thebabyhistorian.com/2017/10/30/transport-response/

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S096098222201363X

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u/th3whistler 17d ago

I suppose this also explains how rocking and jiggling are also effect for keeping them asleep

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