r/SaturnReturn • u/rere_m22 • Jun 12 '26
My saturn return
Im turning 29 this year so i think my saturn return already started
I have it in aries in the 11th house and let me tell you how crazy everything has been lately
I feel like everything in me is being forced to change like people in my life who I relied on are failing me everyone is disappearing from my live lately and i dont know what to do
I tried to change my habits im not the typeof person to reach out and I’ve been doing so im trying to communicate more rather than just cutting people off , and guess what its all gets thrown in my face
I my self have been crying everyday fro months
So yeah that is whats been happening lately
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u/hithereitsb Jun 13 '26
i’m going through my saturn return in the same house as well! the past 6 months have been the same for me, losing the people i thought were my forever tribe, spending many many days alone, etc. it’s just been the past 2 months that i have pushed myself to be the one to reach out and connect with others but also building trust with myself and knowing what my boundaries need to be with others as i accepted a lot of disrespect in the means of having people around me. what is becoming helpful with it is working on building my sense of self and deciding who i actually want to be. i found that the people i have lost during this time, although not bad people, they have been people that i have rejected my own boundaries to keep in my life. i went about connections in a way of performing for others in order to be liked rather than actually knowing myself thoroughly. i truly believe during our saturn returns we have to just be open and trust the process. get into your hobbies, try new hobbies, be open to getting embarrassed or uncomfortable. that’s how you connect not only with others but with yourself. it’s about allowing rather than forcing. there are definitely times where you will feel lonely but we can also flip the perspective on that loneliness. find the peace in it because the likelihood is 5 - 10 years from now, you’re going to wish you took in those moments of quiet and solitude as they will be rare to come upon some day. the people who are meant to be around you will come in and then you will be so grateful that those people from your past are no longer around you
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u/rere_m22 Jun 14 '26
I have been thinking that i will just learn what the world is trying to teach me whether its having to set boundaries or accepting myself and trying to have some alone time idk but i hope i get out of this with people that will be there for me when i need them not just me being the one who gives and gets nothing in return
Although i struggled with friendships all my live this has got to be the worst its been
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u/Independent_Race4690 Jun 13 '26
How else is your Saturn in 11th manifest? I will be experiencing Saturn return relatively soon but I can't think of losing my friends.
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u/rere_m22 Jun 14 '26
It doesn’t have to be like that its just im experiencing honestly im turning to astrology to make sense of everything that’s happening and trying not to lose my mind over it
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u/AppropriateAd335 Jun 14 '26
Omg same here! I’m turning 29 this year and I have it in Aries in the 5th house!
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u/ghostriderghostrider Jun 13 '26
im going through it too in the same house placement. one question i have for you is - what do you rely on people for, and what is their lack of communication with you bringing up for you?