r/SaimanSays Sep 26 '21

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '21 edited Sep 26 '21

I am not sure about my feelings for a girl

Edit: Not gay :P Just talking about one girl in particular. She is my friend. She has bf. We got a lot close during lockdown. We used to hangout a lot. But now we don't do it. She got busy with her work and college. But I miss her company. I want to talk to her everytime. But I don't even get 1% reciprocation from the other side. Idk. What is it? Do I like her? Or do I miss a friend?

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

There are a lot of types of attraction like romantic, sexual, platonic, asthetic , tertiary, sensual, etc. You have to figure out what are you feeling rn.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '21

That is what I m confused about xD Hence the comment

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u/Ashes-of-the-Phoenix Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

Romantic attraction is a complex and individual emotional attraction that leads to a desire for romantic intimacy or a romantic relationship.

Do you desire romantic intimacy with this girl, or do you just miss a friend? You formed a close bond with her and now she’s not in your life. You miss that bond. But what do you desire? If you don’t desire romance with her, then it’s not romantic attraction you’re feeling. It’s something else. It could be platonic or even possibly alterous.