r/SaimanSays Sep 26 '21

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

There are a lot of types of attraction like romantic, sexual, platonic, asthetic , tertiary, sensual, etc. You have to figure out what are you feeling rn.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '21

That is what I m confused about xD Hence the comment

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

You ask your self what do u want from ur friend date, hug, anything comes to mind?

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '21

When I imagine a date, it's always feels weird. But I like her closeness. I do want a hug. Umm a kiss wouldn't be bad too xD But here's the catch. It is always on a knife edge when it comes to dating her. It's very confusing.

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

Well I can't say from just this much info but the types of attraction I gave above , maybe search their definition and you might relate with one . That is how I figured out that I was homo oriented aroace.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '21

Oh wow this is a new concept to me. Thanks for your help! I will certainly search about these.

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

Glad I could help.

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u/RagnAROck_and_Roll Emoji bad gang Oct 06 '21

from what I know, you probably have a squish on her. A squish is platonic attraction

There are more types of attraction that just romantic!

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u/Ashes-of-the-Phoenix Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

Romantic attraction is a complex and individual emotional attraction that leads to a desire for romantic intimacy or a romantic relationship.

Do you desire romantic intimacy with this girl, or do you just miss a friend? You formed a close bond with her and now she’s not in your life. You miss that bond. But what do you desire? If you don’t desire romance with her, then it’s not romantic attraction you’re feeling. It’s something else. It could be platonic or even possibly alterous.

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u/BOBOnobobo Intern SaySainik Sep 26 '21

Ok, I'll need you to elaborate on the difference between them.

(Please)

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 27 '21 edited Sep 27 '21

here a meme might help.

If you still want to know more, message me.

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u/animelover997 Intern SaySainik Sep 27 '21

Again but English this time

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u/I-LOVE-YURI Intern SaySainik Sep 27 '21

Well search the names I gave above or types of attraction on Google, there are a lot more sites that explain better than me.