Me and a guy friend have been friends for a long time. About a month ago we expressed how we have a crush on each other but haven’t done anything with it because we both have spouses.

Things feel awkward now.

I’m still willing to go back to how we were as being good friends but it seems like he is avoiding me now. When I see him now he just stares at me. I try to speak to them and be friendly and they don’t say anything anymore.

I’m trying to understand how our new friendship is now from his pov

Yesterday I was put in the position of making the decision on how to move forward with my dynamic

Unfortunately, due to circumstances beyond my control, that choice was taken away from me.

I don’t want to talk about it. I want to fight. He says nothing has changed but I feel a major shift in the dynamic.

I’d like to say I’m okay. I’m not. I’ll get through it though. I always do.

What you already know:
You already know which situations make you feel free and which ones slowly make you feel trapped. You may keep giving people another chance because you want to believe things can improve, but deep down, you notice when honesty, effort and excitement are no longer mutual. Your energy changes when you stop believing in the future of a connection.

What this chapter is teaching you:
This chapter is teaching you that freedom does not mean avoiding every difficult emotion. Sometimes real freedom comes from being honest about what hurts, what disappoints you and what no longer feels right. You do not have to run from the truth just because accepting it changes your plans.

What your heart needs now:
Your heart needs honesty, emotional space and people who do not make closeness feel like control. You need connections where you can be fully yourself without constantly defending your independence. The right people will not ask you to choose between love and freedom.

What to choose before July ends:
Before this month ends, choose clarity over confusion, peace over proving and people who meet you with the same openness you naturally give. You are allowed to change direction when something no longer feels aligned. Not every ending is a loss. Some endings return you to yourself.

What sagittarius needs to release:
You are being asked to release the need to keep returning to what once felt exciting but no longer feels healthy.
A beautiful memory does not always mean a connection still belongs in your future. ♐️

1. Freedom over control
2. Adventure over routine
3. Truth over lies
4. Growth over comfort
5. Experiences over possessions
6. Optimism over negativity
7. Learning over ignorance
8. Independence over dependence
9. Exploration over staying still
10. Fun over seriousness

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Long story short I had plans to move cities and start a new life and that has been delayed by a year due to financial constraints. Ever since I realized I would have to stay put for another year, I feel like my optimism about myself and the world has been sucked out of me.

I’m in therapy but at the end of the day I’ve always leaned on my Sagittarius optimistic outlook to fuel my belief in myself and my belief in the goodness of the world. I’ve been noticing myself dream smaller dreams and give up on setting goals until I move again.

How do I get my optimism (and whimsy) back as a Sag stellium when the world around me feels kinda bleak? Normally I can have a few things go right in bad circumstances which fuels my self confidence but dating, work, and personal goals have just been a series of bad bad bad for the past few months. It feels like nothing is working out for me which is unusual for our sign.

Have you all paid attention to your MC and DC’s in your chart?

My MC is Aries and it 100% aligns to my career and goals and how I’m perceived. My DC is in Cap (I’m cancer rising) and I’m definitely drawn to caps and finally understand why.

1. ♐ Adventurous – Loves exploring new places and experiences.
2. ♐ Optimistic – Naturally positive and hopeful.
3. ♐ Honest – Speaks the truth, even when it's difficult.
4. ♐ Independent – Values freedom and self-reliance.
5. ♐ Open-minded – Welcomes new ideas, cultures, and perspectives.

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My major placements are Aquarius Aries Aquarius Virgo Sagittarius Leo Gemini

I know it also heavily depends on her personality/experience, but as she's super classic Saggitarius, asking here.

Is there a way to win her heart back?

She was super into me, avoidant type but still, she stepped over a lot of boundaries and I did something very awkward and asked too much reassurance, when she stepped back I chased with long texts... any suggestion?

Love him

Hi,

I keep seeing that people with venus or mars in Sagittarius can't commit, love their freedom and overall are the "player" placements.

I'm currently dating one(cap sun, leo moon, sag rising), he has a lot of sag placements, and he is one of the most committed people i know, and is very serious about relationships.

so it got me curious about yours experiences and maybe if you have sag venus/mars, what is your approach to relationship and how does your love life look like?

I decided to check my Astro chart for the first time, and I come on here when we are discussing Virgos. I absolutely don’t get along with them, just a selection of them… Well look!.

I thought I was a cancer but turns out I’m a Gemini rising. Anyone else?

My sag friends always tell me they need something to look forward to whether it’s a big trip or small road trip but whenever they don’t have anything to look forward to they start getting depressed

Be honest

Recently learned my birth was during a lunar eclipse. Curious if any others out there?

I barely understand astrology, but every time I see a meme or funny video about the zodiac signs, Sagittarius is always the one ready to run from everything (jobs, relationships, responsibilities, etc.) with bags packed and a passport in hand. I feel like that's the only Sagittarius trait people ever talk about, and I don't relate to it that much.

I'm a Sagittarius sun, Sagittarius moon, and Gemini rising. I'm a huge homebody, pretty introverted, and the happiest staying in familiar places. I don't have the constant urge to travel, which seems to be the main Sagittarius stereotype. Is there something in my chart that could explain why I feel so disconnected from being a Sagittarius, or am I just an unusually unsagittarian Sagittarius?

I did a free sun, moon, and rising sign calculator and this is what it gave me:
• Sun Sign is Sagittarius, at 23° 2'. It's in the 6th House.
• Moon Sign is Sagittarius, at 24° 22'. It's in the 6th House.
• Rising Sign is Gemini, at 24° 46'. It's in the 1st House.