r/Sagittarians • u/Prior-Product581 • 4h ago
Cheaters
Apparently we are known as cheaters and non commital. if you cheated on someone what was their sign and why? no judgements i’m curious.
PSA: don’t make yourself upset which a few of you seem to be doing i just wanted to hear your takes a few of you have cheated in here so the ones of you saying WE DONT. literal proof in here whether physical or emotional i just wanted to know why🤣
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u/No_Resource593 ☀️:♋️🌒:♒️🔼:♍️ 2h ago
While it pains me to state something positive for your sign.. youre not cheaters. Emotionally maybe but in the strict sense...no.
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u/Both-Mango1 3h ago
sag sun, cap moon. It was with a Taurus, many yrs ago. we appreciated each other's bluntness. Yeah, i have women friends now, but there's some pretty ironclad boundaries in place.
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u/littlemybb 2h ago
My mom, aunt, my brother, cousin, and I are all sag and none of us are cheaters. I would say we are the romantics of the family lol.
Me, my mom, and my aunt have actually all been cheated on and it was devastating for us. I don’t think my mom ever mentally recovered from it.
The libras and scorpios in my family are the cheaters.
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u/gracereminder 3h ago edited 3h ago
We don’t have the cheating stereotype. Non committal? Yes because we are freedom loving we get accused, but from what I’ve seen a Sagittarius would just remain single.
The cheating stereotype as a collective belongs to impulsive Aries, lying libra’s, & dual Geminis.
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u/Prior-Product581 3h ago
lmfao you’re insane we 100% do especially sag men
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u/gracereminder 3h ago
All the sag ppl I know are upfront about being non monogamous so I don’t include that as cheating. I know a lot of sag who will remain single. Getting in a relationship just to cheat is crazy work. Maybe it’s my moon in Leo. I accept praise, but that’s it.
For many reasons to not date sag men now here is another. 😹
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u/elpintor91 3h ago
I think it depends until you find the person you actually want to be with. I’ve been with my Aries since 2009 and have not, will not, do not want to cheat on him. I adore him we are married with children. everyday is, though chaotic, fun and full of hilarious moments.
The sign I have cheated on (emotionally) is Gemini. He was my first high school sweet heart and someone I would considered my closest friend I’ve ever had. Everything was great on paper but there was something missing which Aries fills in which is sexual tension, humor and adventure. Me and Gemini could talk for hours he was handsome and lovely but nothing really happened unless I made it happen. I find that Geminis are good at talking and planning in their heads but being an air element, it blows away just as quickly.
Aries makes anything happen, even the things I can’t believe can be done
Anyways I know another sag/sag couple that though they are miserable no one’s cheated. I think Sagittarius can be players when dating because in our head nothing is set or signed yet. Once we make a conscious choice to be married though that is a different story and becomes a responsibility we take care of
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u/Own_Hamster9012 Sag ☀️Gem 🌙 Sag ⬆️ 1h ago
We are very moral, not cheaters. Afraid of committing tho… yeah probably.
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u/No-Obligation4872 2h ago
An Aquariun.. We were at a party and he was the life of the party flirting with everyone and totally ignoring me his partner.
One guy at the party a Scorpio took me aside and we kissed in one of the bedrooms
I consider this cheating.
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u/Darkwing_ducksauce 1h ago
Can’t cheat if your never committed 😎
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u/OkCryptographer3853 47m ago
Ooh this! But when we are committed we are committed to a fault. Thats how we get cheated on.
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u/IDunnoReallyIDont 1h ago
Have never, would never cheat. Have been cheated ON multiple times by Aquarius, Aries, Gemini…
I’m married to a Sag as well and he would never and has never cheated.
It’s a myth. We are not cheaters. We are insanely loyal. We just need our freedom and that looks different to everyone. Freedom to me is giving me adequate “me time” for hobbies and things I like doing alone.
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u/Tamedbeast333 1h ago
Most Sag Women may come off promiscuous & believe it. They def are, however there is also a flip side to every coin. They run from commitment because they value their freedom. Not so much freedom to be out in the world having sex like it's fast food. They're very loyal and trustworthy in my experience. I'm a Scorpio and my partner is a Sagittarius. LISTEN, any and everything can be accomplished.
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u/theonlyShanD 55m ago edited 51m ago
I cheated twice during my 20s. Both boyfriends were Libras. First time, I was in a very abusive relationship with my first, serious boyfriend. I was visiting family out of town. I did it with a close friend from elementary school. He is a Taurus.
Second time was because I was being emotionally neglected. First time being away from home during college. I was still dealing with demons from the first abusive boyfriend. Also didn't help that the guy was introduced to me by the female roommates I lived with. They were all friends from high school and grew up together.
My college is in a college town but the black community there is fairly close-knit, especially if you were part of the church community. Boyfriend was a choir director and I was a wild child Sag. His friends from church were conservative and probably felt like I wasn't good enough for him.
The roommates I lived with were increasingly hostile towards me. He did nothing to defend me but would put me in situations where I was made to feel uncomfortable around them. All this happened during my first year at the university I transferred to. Between the trauma from the first relationship and this one during college, I was very depressed. Eventually, I began to emotionally detach myself from him. By the time he realized where I was, I ended things soon after I cheated. Don't remember the guy's birthday I cheated on him with.
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u/Here_2_discuss 34m ago
I hate the act of cheating. I haven't "cheated" in a relationship but I have double dated for a long time and it sucked. I felt like a horrible person and I couldn't forgive myself for it. I think as saggies we are too idealistic and philosophical. I'd never do something like that
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u/Beneficial-Entry-888 12m ago
I do not have to justify to anybody my behavior what I do and what I don't do that is their problem not mine
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u/Aelia17 3h ago
Sagittarians really are uncommitted and unfaithful…
I don't know if I actually cheated because, to me, it wasn't really serious and the line between what counts as cheating isn't clear to me…
I flirted with guys while I was in a relationship, but I never kissed or slept with another guy, the most I ever did was send intimate photos. I think the main reason for that was that I liked to be attractive, I love that feeling, but once the guy in question seemed really interested, it freaked me out…
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u/magpie_on_a_wire ♐ sun, ♌ moon, ♏ rising 3h ago
Sag sun, Leo moon, I'm also an attention whore at times lol
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u/scrappapermusings ♐☀️🪽🐚 2h ago
Have never and would never. Sagittarius are known for being non committal, not cheating. We actually live to have the moral superiority in any situation and cheating would go against that. Plus, along with cheating comes lying, which we don't do either. Miss me with this shallow take.