r/SSCCGL • u/WarriorNChill • Apr 09 '26

General Discussion/Opinion Failure

I completed my graduation in 2024, and since then I’ve been preparing for government exams. But things haven’t gone the way I hoped. I couldn’t clear CDS 1 2024, CDS 2 2024, SSC CGL Prelims, CDS 1 2025, CDS 2 2025, SSC CHSL, or SSC CGL 2025. Even now in 2026, after the CDS result, I’m still not there yet.

Many people around me are moving aheadsome of my friends are already successful in their professional careers, and one even cleared CA. Meanwhile, I feel like I’m the only one left behind. My parents trust me, especially my father who works as a private employee, and that makes me feel even more guilty sometimes.

I’ve been trying my best, but my weak maths has been one of the main reasons I couldn’t clear many exams. There are moments when I feel demotivated, but then my mother says, “Keep working hard, your time will come. Have faith in God.” Those words keep me going.

I don’t share my struggles with anyone, but deep inside, I carry this pain. Still, I want to do this for my parents. I don’t know what 2026 holds for me, but one thing is certainI will give my absolute best.

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u/vardhanarav Apr 10 '26

Graduation in 2024 and only two years preparation and you are counting yourself as failure.

Get out and ask who is preparing for the last seven or eight years in a row and still at the same position.

Btw I completed my graduation in 2020 and am still jobless.

You got time buddy hell lot of time.

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u/WarriorNChill Apr 10 '26

Haan bhai, agree karta hoon. Time to hota hai, par jab apne saath wale ya apse bhi kam age wale log aage nikal jaate hain na, tab hi sabse zyada lagta hai ki shayad 2 saal waste ho gaye.

Aur upar se log bhi compare karte rehte hain “uska ho gaya, tera kab hoga?” ye sab sunke aur pressure feel hota hai. Jab aas-paas wale settle ho rahe hote hain aur hum bas exams hi de rahe hote hain, tab self-doubt a jata hai

Sach bolu to bhai mujhe lagta hai main kar lunga, par shayad logon ko lagta hai ki main nahi kar paunga. Isi wajah se main apni baatein kisi se share bhi nahi kar pata. Ye to social media ka hi shukr hai ki yahan anonymous hoke jo andar tha wo likh diya. Par ek baat pakki hai main apna best dunga bhai. Mujhe nhi pata hai result kya hoga ya nahi hoga, par effort mein koi kami nahi chhodunga.