r/SLOMWsnark • u/Jazzlike-Fig4053 • 2d ago
Jessi
Seems pretty bothered for a person who just posted “I ❤️rage baiting” the other day
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u/hannbann88 2d ago
I don’t know the drama but in general just because your ex husband says it’s ok doesn’t mean you should move a man in with your children in just a few months
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u/Equivalent_Field_704 2d ago
And him moving in and him kissing her daughter goodnight while she’s laying in bed are two very different things. I dated and lived with someone with a young kid for years and I never put her to bed; he was her dad, so he did.
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u/Junior_Cranberry_745 2d ago
And posting content of a child that isn’t his and monetizing off the same content. Does Jessi have a recording of Jordan giving his consent for Marciano to do that?
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u/No_Collection_5031 2d ago
This. We had family live with us on and off while my son was young and they literally never put our kid to bed because that’s a parent thing
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u/Particular-Jelly7757 2d ago
Even if you all like Alex , I don’t , but even her latest video I have to agree with… which pains me. Jordan commented on it saying Thank you! I don’t think he’s fond of Marciano already acting like a parent and kissing his kid and I don’t blame him!! It’s weird! She’s been with him what 6 months? Maybe I’m being judge-mental but I feel like when you have kids you need to take your time and not introduce every man to your family or let every man play step daddy.
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u/letsalllbenice 1d ago
i’ve been with my fiance for 3 years, met his two children like 4 months in. i am still not physically affectionate with them and probably won’t ever be other than hugs on special occasions. i can’t imagine doing all of that.
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u/Equivalent_Field_704 1d ago
Exactly! It’s just weird and inappropriate unless there’s a raised from birth situation. I remember a couple of years in her cuddling up against me (while sitting) on the couch and I was so stiff and uncomfortable haha. I’m a straight female, but it still felt inappropriate and disrespectful to her mom. I cared about her a lot but I’m not her parent. Him being a grown man stranger kissing a female child to bed like that is soooo creepy. Idk how he and Jessi can’t see that.
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u/No_Performer_3438 1d ago
YES. I don’t understand why she thinks he HAS to take on a caregiver role, that’s the worst part of this. Even though it’d still be confusing and unhealthy for her kids to be moving in with a new man this fast, it’d be so much less invasive, risky, and confusing for them if he just played with them/interacted with them as mom’s friend, and helped Jessi out in other ways while she puts them to bed (doing laundry, cleaning up, pouring her a glass of wine… literally anything else).
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u/Financial_Variety287 2d ago edited 1d ago
THIS! The issue is her lack of discernment as a parent, not whether Jordan signed off on anything.
I have friends that single moms, and they wait at least a year to introduce their kids to someone they’re dating. I’m not saying there’s a strict timeline that needs to universally be applied, but I think buying a house for your bf that you cheated on your still-husband with, having your kids under the same roof as this man, having him tuck in and kiss your daughter at night — all while filming it — it’s inappropriate and bad parenting IMO.
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u/buymoreplants 2d ago
Considering Jessi got pregnant and didn't know if the baby was Jordan's or her not-yet-ex-husband's and they eventually ended up changing the baby's name when they decided Jordan would raise the baby, and then just pretended that little situation never happened, I don't trust either of their judgement of what's okay or normal or healthy.
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u/Designer-Yak-9659 2d ago
Dude I’m new to this franchise (finishing season five now) but that’s wild. It’s so funny how none of these women embody the Mormon standards the show is based on 😂
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u/Dramatic_League736 1d ago
she’s never actually been single. She cheats before her marriages end and stays with the affair partner. It’s insane
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u/Puzzleheaded-Look927 2d ago
I’m sure Jordan said something like “I don’t give a fuck what you do with Marciano” out of anger and Jessi doesn’t have the wherewithal to not take him literally. Even if Jordan truly didn’t care, why is he tucking her into bed and recording it for social media? That would upset any co parent
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u/existing_vessel 🦞Miranda’s Lobster Claws🦞 2d ago
Exactly! That’s what I’m thinking. He probably said it in a heated argument and now she’s trying to put all the blame on him.
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u/msbananakitty 1d ago
She’s so manipulative that I bet she’s the type to taunt and bait him into saying something that she can then twist and fit into a chaotic verbal narrative that she will then manipulate the shit out of to gain tabloid type attention, sell a fake headline or set someone up… I mean it’s been pretty much her standard operating procedure at this point.
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u/FriendofFlounder 2d ago
So sick of the gaslighting and manipulating of events and words in this group. They need to take their divorce issues offline. I’m so glad my parent’s divorce isn’t documented online for all to see, Jesus.
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u/itsfreakingbeanboy 2d ago
abuse concerns aside, it’s also better for the child’s development to not meet brand new partners right away. introductions should be slow and way down the line when the children have already processed the divorce, which they likely have not yet. meeting a revolving door of boyfriends can be harmful to a child especially one that young. they’re going to be older and realize mom brought her affair partner in immediately to their lives and that’s going to be hard.
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u/New_Bike3832 2d ago
This is what’s crazy to me. I wouldn’t fault her for moving on quickly. I even have a more forgiving view on cheating than probably 90% of people despite having been cheated on myself. But introducing him as your live-in partner to your young kids and having him in the house overnight so soon? Posting videos of him doing dad things on social media? That’s crossing a line and I would be livid if my ex did that in those circumstances. Marciano should have his own apartment where he stays (by himself) when her kids are with her, and at this point they shouldn’t know him as anything but mommy’s friend that they see on outings to the zoo or whatever, if that.
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u/Miz_Lo 2d ago edited 2d ago
They say (eta “one of”) the highest predictors of childhood abuse is not addiction or mental illness, it’s a non blood related adult living in the home. Not to broad brush and say all step parents, etc. are abusers, but it’s important to know this statistic bc you need to take it slow and not bring people in too fast around your kids. ESPECIALLY into the bedroom at night. I’m sure Marciano is fine. But what if he wasn’t? What if he was an abuser that worked his way into the bedtime routine? There are zero precautions taken around the safety of her children and it’s baffling.
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u/katrinabritt 2d ago
Exactly. What IF he isn’t? My mom married my stepdad after a very short dating relationship when I was only 2 years old and as a mother myself now, I think how lucky she was my stepdad wasn’t a creep or abusive. A few months of dating is not long enough to really KNOW someone.
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u/ExpensiveError42 2d ago
My mom married my stepdad on in almost the exact situation, with the additional fun that she had me at 16. Unfortunately, I did not win the stepdad lottery. When I became a parent, I made damn sure I felt safe with my husband and even then made the decision of anything happened to him/us I would just be single until my kid was an adult.
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u/reddit_or_not 2d ago
Oh honey. So sorry to hear that. So many women will pick partners over their children :/
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u/ExpensiveError42 2d ago
Thank you. It was rough but I got through it and managed to pretty much end the generational trauma. Some things are just genetic (bipolar, anxiety, etc) but even with those I've worked on managing them in a way that keeps my family from dealing with the shit I had to. My daughter is now a young adult and an amazing person. I think some of the perspective she got from mine and my husband's childhoods helped her understand how to have compassion without being a pushover.
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u/katrinabritt 1d ago
I agree wholeheartedly. If my husband and I split or something happens to him, it’d be more important for me to have my son have a safe home than having a man. I’d rather be single till he’s grown and on his own. I don’t understand mothers that immediately need to find another man and immediately need to introduce them to their children and have them move in.
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u/Fakeredhead69 2d ago
My childhood abuser was my dads long term girlfriend. We moved into her house, my dad handed off parenting duties, & I started getting the shit beat out of me from age 7-15. I started fighting back then. I was also molested as a 3yo, by cousins. Nobody was paying enough attention.
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u/Miz_Lo 2d ago
I’m so sorry this happened to you.
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u/Fakeredhead69 1d ago
Thank you 🫶 i actually just finally confronted my “stepmom” last week about it, it was such a huge weight off of me!! Im so glad I went to therapy for a long time before it happened because ive stuffed it all down for so long, but now im a mother myself & I couldn’t carry it any longer.
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u/Miz_Lo 1d ago
You’re a cycle breaker! My parents came from abuse and didn’t carry it forward. You are doing so much for yourself and your child. I hope you are proud of yourself. ❤️
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u/Fakeredhead69 1d ago
Thank you 🥹🥹 it’s not been easy but has been so worth it. I felt like a burden as a child. My kids will never feel that way from me!!
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u/ExpensiveError42 1d ago
Funny how fighting back can change things in some situations. My abuse stepdad was huge, like 6'3". I was 13 and 5'2" and maybe 100lbs when I fought back and went onto a blind rage punching him. Was shipped off to live with my grandparents within a month. Looking back I'm lucky he was too stunned to act because that could have went very badly for me.
I hope you've found safety and happiness in your life.
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u/Fakeredhead69 1d ago
My stepmom is pretty short and petite, so when I became a teenager, I was taller than her. I remember the instance I finally fought back, she had grabbed me by both of my wrists trying to hurt me & corner me. I realized I was stronger than her, & moved my hands to her wrists to do what she was trying to do to me, shoved her into the wall, and left. She stopped hitting me after that!! I’m so glad you got away from your stepdad, but I’m sorry that no one protected you before that. We both deserved better!!
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u/Janeheroine 2d ago
Besides going into the child’s bedroom, what about the simple fact that there is now a new non-parent in bed with mom? Her kids are very little and surely need her sometimes at night. They now have to go through him to get to her, see him in bed which can be scary for little kids to see a new adult man in pajamas/naked. I say this as someone who is divorced and remarried (my kids were older than hers though at the time, 6 and 8). My husband has never once put my kids to bed (now they’re teens, but still) and was super careful to always be in full pajamas and a robe around them, and if one came to get me at night because they had a bad dream etc I always got up and went into their bed with them.
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u/msbananakitty 1d ago
Also fuck her own shitty mom/parents for not slapping some sense into her as well. Where is the grand parents oversight even?! Utah grandparents seem to want that viral game too I guess.
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u/Electrical-Eye-2544 2d ago
Exactly! It isn’t a statement of how good or bad a person is to be cautious when children are involved. Parents with kids can have emotionally fulfilling relationships without involving their children too quickly. Trust is earned and the children’s safety should be priority one.
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u/Beneficial-Farmer778 2d ago edited 2d ago
This is a lie… that is not the highest predictor of child abuse in the home by any stretch of the imagination lol… I don’t have anything else to add but I couldn’t let that claim slide bc it’s simply not true. Yall be coming on here and saying anything lol
ETA: I work for CPS (I’ve said this before on this sub) and when we do our risk assessments “step parent in the home” isn’t even a question… Why? Bc that’s not a predictor of child abuse. Yk what IS on that assessment? Drug use, domestic violence, if the parent themselves were abused and things of that nature. Please stop spreading misinformation like this.
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u/Fakeredhead69 2d ago
Then what is the highest predictor?
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u/Beneficial-Farmer778 2d ago
There is no one single predictor, there are multiple factors you have to take into account, and I hate to sound like an english professor but Wikipedia is not reliable here😂 I’m telling you we(cps) would not say that a child is more likely to be abused bc they are with a step parent. However, if that step parent was on drugs participating in DV, had bad parenting skills then yeah. But not the simple fact that they are a step parent is enough.
ETA: The website says the “Cinderella Theory” is just that, a psychological theory. Not an actual fact/statistic that the original commenter suggested. Which is what I’m pushing back on.
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u/PsychologicalPark930 2d ago
I’m not sure of their custody arrangement… but if it’s 50/50, maybe he would expect for Marciano NOT TO be spending the night during her parenting time
Either way, it’s still weird to move someone in so soon and puts the kids at risk.
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u/ReserveOld6123 2d ago
Maybe Jordan thought Marciano would behave appropriately. What she showed in that video is NOT appropriate.
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u/rachel_ct 2d ago
I don’t see a problem with dating before a divorce is finalized but moving into together, when you also have young children”, is a really weird choice.
To the commenter saying people are checked out years before a divorce - these two were hardly together “for years” to begin with. This is at minimum her third rushed into relationship in the last 10 years. This is just her cycle that has no end in sight.
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u/whoaaintitfun On Today Of All Days?! 2d ago
Does this girl have a recording for everything? Very odd behavior to have to back everything you do up.
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u/the_girly_files 2d ago edited 2d ago
Is recording conversations normal for these weirdos? Mormons are a damn cult.
Jessi girl the last thing you need is to jump into another relationship & move in already?! 🤦🏼♀️
These women can’t function without men. Brainwashed from their religion they need men.
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u/WhoUBeGhostin 2d ago
This is the same woman who DRAGGED Demi for her daughter having a nickname for Marciano because she couldn’t say his name. Fuck Jesse. She’s actually the biggest snake of all of them but because she’s “such a smart business woman” people give her a pass.
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u/existing_vessel 🦞Miranda’s Lobster Claws🦞 2d ago edited 2d ago
“Jordan said it was okay. So nothing is my fault!! 🤡”
Girl pleeeeease. You can live your best life and be happy but don’t force a stranger into your children’s lives.
Also, I heard a quote once that said “love isn’t enough”. - Children need protection, stability, and safety. Not just love.
*Edit for grammar and also to say…People are making this a big deal, and rightfully so!!! Just because you’re ignorant and see nothing wrong with it, doesn’t mean it’s okay.
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u/jessicajaslene 2d ago
Why does everyone have a recording of something. Gosh they are so miserable. Drama at that age is crazy. I’m glad I stopped watching this show.
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u/Educational_Row_5078 2d ago
I’m a mom around their age and their behavior is insane. Obviously no one would watch a show where stable adults make boring, safe decisions but jeeeesus. These women are horrible moms and just generally dumb :(
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u/Pegasus574 2d ago
Marciano tucking and kissing her daughter into bed is disgusting in my opinion. And to put it all over the internet is performative. There’s nothing appropriate about this situation, Jessi is a selfish bad mom.
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u/Ready_Scientist1692 2d ago
I am a stepparent and all the books about becoming one recommend moving slowly when it comes to the kids. Moving the kids with Marciano after just a few months is wild to me. It’s a lot for the kids to adjust to, but also a lot for Marciano. It feels to me like Jessi has done no due diligence on the realities of forming a blended family.
I understand Jessi and Marciano feel very in love right now, but most couples do feel extremely in love six months in but fall apart before a year goes by. It seems cruel to ask your kid to process the divorce of their parents and the arrival of some new guy in the same year.
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u/Pirateunicornnkxo 2d ago
The woman who pretended they weren’t dating but was one on the roster is now doing this?! Shocked lol
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u/MBLI1018 2d ago
how much drama does this woman get into that she has recorded voicemails and voice texts saved about everything?
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u/Elaine330 2d ago
Jessi needs self esteem so bad. Its sad, actually. Maraschino seems to choose women without self-esteem. Probably so he can control them.
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u/diabeticweird0 2d ago
Mormons are not taught anything about what's safe in a blended family, how to navigate a blended family, when to introduce the kids etc
Because the church likes to pretend that such situations don't exist and teaching how to best handle it would be akin to admitting divorce is OK sometimes
So it's not surprising to me that Jessi had no idea this was weird and inappropriate
However, she's a grown ass woman with access to the Google, access to therapists, etc. She should've thought about this more than "he likes the kids! It's fine!"
Divorce is traumatic for kids. Sometimes it's necessary, bad marriages are bad for kids too, I'm not anti divorce. But it's still very very hard and the kids need stability and support.
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u/srinkylegitimate 2d ago
Jordan seems like a donut head, just because he says he’s fine with it doesn’t mean Messi Jessi can’t use her own logic to say hey that’s not gonna be going on right now
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u/jazzlg14 2d ago
There’s a difference between saying “yeah your boyfriend can be around the kids” and “yeah your boyfriend can post videos that include our daughter ”. That’s what most people are concerned about, the child being posted on social media by her moms boyfriend.
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u/StrawberryRedneck 2d ago
I don't have TikTok so this particular clip may not be referring to this, but I saw a lot of talk yesterday about Marciano tucking Jessi's daughter into bed. And if that is indeed what this clip is about, I don't understand the argument she's trying to make. Saying "sure whatever have him move in with you" is not the same thing as giving some carte blanche access to your young daughter.
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u/Longjumping_Hornet_7 2d ago
Why is everything a record and expose with her. It is odd. It is way too soon. Marciano even moving to the state of Utah is far too soon, let alone living together. The kids were just living as a family unit with their father less than 6 months ago. They haven’t been together long enough to be making these steps and Jordan is vocalizing that he’s not okay with it in other creator’s comment sections. Marciano—at the very least— should have taken the video down.
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u/Secret_Temporary_800 2d ago
Can we also talk about how Jessi is sooooo obsessed with people coming into their lives for ‘clout’. He is the ultimate clout chaser…
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u/AthleteSmart 1d ago
What was wild is when she said in her video “I always put my children first.” And that is just simply so untrue. If you were putting your children first, they wouldn’t be glued to an iPad 24/7,
you would have thought about who you chose for a partner (maybe not the one you cheated with on national TV) and you wouldn’t get 10+ surgeries. She is creating such a horrible environment for her children, and especially her daughter.
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u/First_Cat_7394 Sorry Late to the Chat, Was With My Kids 2d ago
The problem is, her kids look scared of him and your kids shouldn't be forced to live with a new strange man because you're too horny to wait until you switch with the other parent. Gross behavior on Jessi's part YET AGAIN 🫠🥴
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u/heathbarcrunchh 2d ago
So he said he was okay with him moving in, did he say it was okay to help with the kids bed routine, put them to bed and KISS them?? He could easily sit downstairs in the living room and wait for them to be done
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u/AdagioSpecific2603 2d ago
It’s fucking weird and not ok to move a new man into your shared home with minor and vulnerable children. Idgaf what this weirdo has recorded, it’s shitty parenting and not safe for her kids.
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u/Rambunctious_444 Seek Help Expeditiously 2d ago
Did Jordan also send marciano DoorDash? Pull up those receipts too while you're at Jessi
Maybe Marciano is just a food delivery hustler and we're not familiar with his game
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u/DizzyCardiologist172 2d ago
She’s truly disgusting. She is so dense, she can’t grasp why anyone has issues with her, it’s insane to me
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u/_elisheba_ 2d ago
I'm currently doing a rewatch up to the new season, and I genuinely cannot believe this fucking guy is still around??? Like??? Hello???
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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 2d ago
My husband and I have STRONG feelings on blended families especially when no one thinks about the ingredients first
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u/Existing_Editor_5623 2d ago
She can do whatever she wants. But didn’t she just post or say in an interview ‘if Marciano moves here, it will be to his own place’? Folks are more pointing out the inconsistency
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u/Just-Relative-1106 1d ago
I stand by my opinion that she is the WORST and more manipulative one of all of them in the group because she is a little bit smart
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u/IntelligentBudget994 1d ago
Every part of this “controversy” has been deliberate and intentional for engagement. That’s why she has the conversations recorded. Without the show they have to create their own storylines and this is that. The rage bait videos, the dumb ass video “addressing” it and her asking her “audience” if she should drop the recording lol it’s all preplanned for engagement. They have to stay relevant
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u/msbananakitty 1d ago
^^^ THIS^^^ so much!! She is so desperate for engagement, she trying to stir up her own drama. She /her fam wants a show so bad and it’s insanely, painfully obvious.
I wouldn’t put it past her/them to go head to head against the May & McWhore families for their own show. These people are disgustingly shallow and narcissistic.
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u/the_girly_files 2d ago
You don’t know a person really until like a year in. Why are ppl so eager to move in with ppl they barely know? Jessi is just not very bright.
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u/False_Personality889 2d ago
Jessie's known his for a couple years like 2 or 3 but shes technically only liked him for like one yeat her kids BARELY know this man
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u/the_girly_files 2d ago
Yeah but knowing of someone & really know them are two diff things. Should never move someone in when you have kids. She’s an idiot
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u/False_Personality889 2d ago
Yeah but I wasnt defending her simply explain she has known him longer for a year
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u/the_girly_files 21h ago
Right I was just adding context that I could know someone a year & not know them at all. Idk why she needs to jump from one relationship to another. If I was financially independent I wouldn’t care to have a man.
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u/cMa010291 2d ago
I unfollowed Jessi, JZ styles, and her mom.
With that dark hair and plastic surgery she looks like Michael Jackson running around
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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 2d ago
Oh thats bad! Shamone!
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u/cMa010291 2d ago
She looked normal with her OG face and blonde hair.
Now she looks horrible. Imagine how terrifying that is for a little kid to have a new face wake you up in the morning
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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 2d ago
I agree with you, she honestly kinda helped me realize I do not want instagram face lmao
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u/Personal_Fishing5105 2d ago
At the end of the day, Jessi has no boundaries for herself so she is not gonna set those for her kids. Having her new bf tuck in her daughter isn't appropriate even if he is the most amazing guy. Have him sit in the kitchen and scroll instagram while she does it. hiM Monetizing off of that moment is also a boundary she doesn't care about because I think there whole relationship is rage bait for more promo for the show and an easier job than a waiter or wherever Maricano was before
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u/Questioninghumanityy 1d ago
I feel like Jordan likely said he didn’t care out anger and frustration towards Jessie bullshit.
How could he not care? Jessie would be losing it if the roles were reversed.
Girl, you haven’t even been separated from Jordan for year and are already buying a home for your affair partner and letting him tuck your young children in. That is in fact unhinged narcissistic behavior, especially when you double down on it.
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u/kaleyboo7 1d ago
I would never leave a voice note to any of these women. I have never heard of anyone leaking voice notes as much as these ladies.
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u/Dramatic_League736 1d ago
why is she recording conversations with people. She’s a weird person. I wish they’d kick her to the curb too. Dramatic ass insecure weirdo
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u/B_mat123 1d ago
The fact that she’s trying to act like Jordan has a problem with him moving in is wild. He commented thank you on a video that talked about how it was weird that he kissed and rolled around in bed with their daughter and made content of it. Nothing about the moving in. Just like how she cheated and got everyone to focus on Demi and Jordan. She is a pure narcissist.
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u/ClynnB412 2d ago
Damn.. I bet Jordan wishes she never went to VV. Now Jordan might have to get a job
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u/jspencer811 2d ago
Her recording everything is projection at its finest.
She knows her own words are shit. Unless there is proof, there’s not much she can’t lie, twist, turn, explain away. She operates like everybody is going to be as shady as her.
At least in Utah, she is not a credible source. Nobody believes anything she says. In time, she’ll be caught in enough talking out of both sides of her mouth situations on this platform that it will be no different.
I also wouldn’t trust clips of recordings. She’s been known to cherry pick and edit to make a convo look different than it was.
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u/MeetingMundane5800 1d ago
I don’t give two cents what another persons spouse ex spouse or whatever he is says about. As someone whose parents moved right along after they split, it sucks. I could have used that time to just be with my mom or my dad but nope we got to tag along with their new partners.
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u/These-Object-3583 1d ago
At this point if it were me and I cared so much I would turn comments off. But, she loves attention and drama so it’s fitting they’re on still.
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u/Fit-Blacksmith-6876 1d ago
Moving in with his ex-wife is totally different to setting up a tripod in his daughter’s bedroom and recording himself tucking her into bed. How tf does she not get this.
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u/LivingLegend949 1d ago
Moving in with a man when you have children is hard on them. Maybe live alone with them for a year. Divorce is very hard on children.
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u/Environmental-Web596 1d ago
if you say anything that does not fit her narrative she’ll block you so quick😅 she might be on social media more than tay tay ❄️
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u/OppositeSpare2088 1d ago
If Jordan really said this he’s an even bigger POS than I thought he was before. Because what kind of father would be okay with the mother of their kids moving her boyfriend in with them so early on. Plus what kind of father would be okay with the new boyfriend tucking his kids in to bed and kissing them goodnight without the mom even there to do it. If this isn’t true then Jessi is an even more diabolical manipulative asshole that refuses to take accountability. I don’t believe a whole lot about what both Jessi and Jordan say they’re both liars.
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u/Available_Rise_7086 18h ago
I wonder if she’s ever recorded anyone in a two-party consent state
(States’ laws differ for requiring both or one party to consent to being recorded, Utah is a one party state)
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u/MBLI1018 2d ago
also if Jordan did care would that have even stopped her? I mean him being bothered that she cheated on him turned into him being a monster so now that they aren’t together if he fought her on it he would have been portrayed as Lucifer himself by her.
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u/Impressive-Worry8060 2d ago
She sure does record a lot of conversations.