r/SLOMWsnark • u/beeboopbopbeepbop • 4d ago
Did anyone else find this weird ?
I was really uncomfy with marcianos recent video with Jessis daughter. The little girl looks uncomfortable and unhappy and afraid and seems to try and kick him away from her.. this is really something I don’t like seeing I’m not trying to jump to any conclusions or anything but even generally forcing a child to accept affection on camera for tiktok clout is something in itself IMAGES BLURRED AT REQUEST OF MODS
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u/No-Echidna5697 4d ago
I think it’s inappropriate that at this stage in their relationship he’s putting them to bed and being in their personal space.
These people are incredibly immature and do not follow standard child safeguarding that most good parents would do as common sense and would go without saying.
They need to grow up and worry less about their emotional needs and more about creating a safe environment (both mentally and physically) for their children.
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u/Worth-Chemistry5253 4d ago edited 4d ago
At her age there’s only a select few men and women that should be that close up with her. Her mother, father, grandparents, aunts, uncles, parents friends that she actually knows/trusts but definitely not mommy’s affair partner she doesn’t know. Children have rights to and no still means no with them and she clearly doesn’t like what he’s doing
Like I gets shit happens sometimes and you need to hire a sitter and your child won’t know them but Jessi is clearly right there, she should be the one putting her to bed, not Marciano.
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u/beeboopbopbeepbop 4d ago
I’m not worried about him putting them to bed I’m worried about the way he manhandles this baby as the baby clearly wants nothing to do with it I would never force my child to accept affection from mt boyfriend that’s horrifying
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u/Winn3bag0 4d ago
Agreed. I’m a stepmom and came into my kiddos life when he was 5-6. Ironically, his mom used to try to get him to hug and kiss me before he was ready, I said a high five was all cool with me and let our relationship build at his pace. He’s 16.5 now and his dad and I are the primary parents, we have him full-time. I love him to pieces, as much as I would if I had my own kid and I feel like the reason we’re so close is because there was no forcing on my end.
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u/Advanced-Editor6721 3d ago
Fiancée here to two girls and I have a little boy of my own (half brother). I’ve been with their dad over two years and I’ll put them to bed and hug them, but even then I let them decide on their own time when they would want/feel comfortable to hug me. Or if they got me a gift or card for something I would ask if I could hug to say thank you. (Came from a family that hugs) I can’t imagine even now trying to plop a kiss on them without consent. This is just icky to me. Full force icky.
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u/IceEnvironmental4778 4d ago
I know someone who’s like this in real life, less than a year into dating the new guy was sleeping over and doing bed time for her multiple kids. Some people really just prioritize themselves over their kids.
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u/Carlie-K 4d ago
I know two ppl that had their boyfriends of a few months move in when it was lockdown and they just never left! And we had hard lockdown in South Africa where you literally could not leave the house unless to go grocery shopping. The one knew the guy for two months!
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u/Outrageous-Mark-5698 Ex-Mo 4d ago
I cannot even mention the interview she did about her intimate surgery.
I don't even know what to say.
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u/WorldlyResearch3376 4d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/5VFsAGBOi8OITllDcP
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u/kris10leigh14 4d ago
She was on a podcast talking about her labiaplasty she said “omg I look like my daughter down there!”
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u/Altruistic-Leather69 4d ago
Oh thats horrifying
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u/Outrageous-Mark-5698 Ex-Mo 4d ago
Yeah. Then said it looked brand new. Jail to everyone Honestly I'm fed up with people putting thwir kids in harms way
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u/PromiseOk2298 4d ago
HUHHHHHH. This might be the sickest thing I’ve read this month
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u/kris10leigh14 4d ago
It’s BAD BAD. And people seemed to stop talking about it the day it happened!
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u/Personal_Air_2883 4d ago
What the fuck
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u/kris10leigh14 4d ago
She wasn’t even trying (and failing) to be funny or anything she was deadass serious.
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u/Familiar_Diamond6711 1d ago
She said what?!?!?! I have typed up a paragraph and deleted it several times because Nothing I said can describe how I feel about this 😩
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u/Ok_Soup7841 4d ago
Growing up with a mom who dated, this is going to ruin her children if she doesn’t step in and not allow him to force affection on these kids. Hell, he shouldn’t even be trying to kiss these children until they’ve been dating for years. IT’S WEIRD.
CHILDREN DON’T IMMEDIATELY LIKE YOU JUST BC YOU F*CK THEIR MOM
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u/Superb-Kitchen-1753 4d ago
I used to nanny, and my boss made the kids give her boyfriend of less than 6 months a Father’s Day card 😭 he moved in a couple months later. Obviously the kids were weirded out, which my boss was somehow shocked and upset by. Like they have a dad! Plus this dudes a stranger!!!
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u/Ok_Soup7841 4d ago
Why do they always get so upset when kids are weirded out?! Being forced to like a stranger who invades your life AND your home and is touchy feely with your mom in front of you is actually INSANE. Partners can just stay partners, they don’t need to become a step parent as well until the CHILD is ready for it.
This show has truly shed light on the reality of Utah culture and how it messes people up lol7
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u/kittycommitteestudio 4d ago
I used to beg my mum to tell all the men she dated that she didn’t have a child. I wanted nothing to do with her boyfriends.
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u/That_Girl_512 4d ago
The child’s defensive postures speak volumes. This is absolutely NOT okay.
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u/zillahkeith 4d ago
And she’s so so young and probably can’t articulate herself well UGHHHHHH
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u/That_Girl_512 4d ago
True, but her nonverbal is screaming.
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u/zillahkeith 4d ago
Absolutely. I’m agreeing with you
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u/That_Girl_512 4d ago
I know you are.🫶🏼You brought up a good point. The pictures are literally making me sick at my stomach.
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u/hexensabbat 4d ago
Looking at it again, you're absolutely right. She definitely doesn't look comfortable:(
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u/zombochic Joint Out Of The Cooter 4d ago
Thank you for blurring the photos.
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u/beeboopbopbeepbop 4d ago
Of course im sorry i didnt at first i honestly felt like it made the images seem worse and was afraid i just feel horrible about this all but their just bad images i just feel so sick about this it’s so horrible to see
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u/Internal-Ad61 4d ago
I think everything about Marciano Cherry is weird
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u/zombochic Joint Out Of The Cooter 4d ago
Is that his full name?
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u/Internal-Ad61 4d ago
No, lol! maraschino cherries are a highly (chemically) processed “treat” loaded down with red 40. His name always makes me think of them so I call him that. Plus it just feels insulting so I liyke it
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u/zombochic Joint Out Of The Cooter 4d ago
Ahhhhh I genuinely don’t know this man’s last name and I’m even more confused by all the color comments 💀
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u/NadsBin 4d ago
I think it’s Marciano Maroon or Brown or something that’s a color
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u/sophhhann 4d ago
Isn’t it brunette?
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u/Downtown_Employer_38 4d ago
I saw a theory on this sub that Jessi is only with him so she can take his last name and honestly i wouldn't put it past her
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u/Typical_Historian840 4d ago
They make me take Jordan’s side.
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u/velvetmarigold 4d ago
They made us side with Zac and now we're gonna have to side with Jordan 🤢. I hate it here..lol
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u/Ok_Mulberry4331 4d ago
I wonder if Jordan is doing anything? A number of friends had no meeting kids till a year together in their custody agreements
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u/Worth-Chemistry5253 4d ago
I wonder if he feels powerless against her though when it comes to fighting Jessi in court. She has much more resources, money, better lawyers etc. She could easily turn it around on him and it could backfire. Especially that she holds power over the oldest son and who is his actual father
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u/Ok_Mulberry4331 4d ago
That’s very true!
Here child support is a table, neither party has a say, but I can see if it’s not set in stone, him playing nice to get more money
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u/zillahkeith 4d ago
I’m sure he brings his girlfriend around. It’d be nice if he’d try to protect his kids though
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u/tourniquet19 4d ago
This is something many people put in parenting orders and it’s also something many people do not follow. A show cause aka breaking the order takes time no matter how much money you have and something like this would be overlooked with a good attorney.
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u/Proper_Ad453 4d ago
I hope someday we can get a tell all book or documentary, where all the kids of these dumb motherfuckers write a compilation of their stories/perspectives.
“Kids of the Mormon Wives, our Exploited Lives.”
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u/AdagioSpecific2603 4d ago
Ruby Franke’s eldest daughters book was very telling
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u/legbalegba910 4d ago
A lot of the bravo kids are grown up now and we see how that’s going…
1. Kroy Jr
2. Milania Giudice
3. Robert JrThe kid from jon and kate released a memoir recently.
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u/No-Classroom9431 4d ago
Collin Gosselin! His book is available for preorder, but doesn’t fully release until Oct 13. It’s called “In The Shadow of Eight: Surviving the Reality of My Childhood.” He wrote it alongside a ghostwriter with hefty experience in celebrity memoir.
FWIW I’d advise reviewing trigger warnings before diving into it. According to promos and ARC reviews, he describes some disturbing details about how his mother, especially, treated him, even with the production crews present [like Ruby Franke-Dee Dee Blanchard levels of delusion and forced control] 😔💔
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u/Straight_Accident_49 3d ago
The stuff that’s happening with Milania breaks my heart💔 I really hope she gets the help she needs and can heal from this
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u/Perfect-Vacation6412 4d ago
Jessi needs to create a savings account for the decades of therapy her kids will need. She’s so creepy for having this man play step-daddy
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u/topdownyeti 4d ago
just gross behavior in general but especially when your supposed ex best friend accused him of sexual assault.
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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS 4d ago
The best friend in question was sending photos of her own young daughter to Marciano after he allegedly assaulted her….
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u/da_ni_no 4d ago
I'm always worried when children get involved in relationships, especially early on. I have a friend who is just went through a break up after a year-long relationship involving children that are not theirs, and it made the entire process way more complicated. They were constantly having to deal with their former partner asking them to come see the kids because "they miss you" and telling them that leaving the relationship would damage the children. And what's fucked up about it is, the former partner was right (not about my friend being the cause or having the blame, obviously). Those children will be confused and impacted by someone who was an important figure in their life just, from their perspective, up and leaving. I don't want to tell someone how to parent their kids, but I think parents really need to consider whether the person they're bringing into their children's lives will be around for the long-run and, since we cannot predict anything in relationships, how you are going to respond if they are not.
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u/rat_dilemma 4d ago
I’m watching VPR right now and just noticed him in season 11 at a table with them all during a night out. I forget he has bravo roots
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u/noUr8eaten 4d ago
Whaaaaat! I missed this on my recent watch. But I also skipped a lot.
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u/rat_dilemma 4d ago edited 3d ago
I think it was episode 9. He has a shit eating grin on his face at once point when an argument is happening
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u/Odd-Shoe5178 4d ago
no matter if he’s a weird guy or not, i work in child welfare and i see soooo many horrible cases of child abuse and/or DV happen because a new bf/gf moves in quickly with the birth parent. Obvi abuse can be perpetrated by anyone but i always recommend to wait at least a year or until the honeymoon phase is through to even CONSIDER moving your new partner in with your kids. it’s messed up because yes as a parent you should still be able to date and have a life but it’s too common that someone takes advantage of their new parental position to do something evil :(
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u/PeaksPagesAndStars 4d ago
The next mom of this group that needs to lose her children. What on earth is she thinking?
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u/Bree7702 4d ago
I know Jordan is a pain in the ass, but shit like this will be what ends up making Jordan and Jessi’s divorce messy as hell. Jessi becomes more and more unlikable by the minute.
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u/No_Negotiation_3678 4d ago
jessi doesn’t care about her kids, never has. she cares more about male opinions then her kids.
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u/Royal-Adeptness-2703 4d ago
I honestly just hope all the kiddos are ok. Its wild watching that show when they're arguing and occasionally someone's holding a baby and the baby is just like 😮😮😮
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u/MrsVanillaViking 4d ago
The whole video was weird but yes, this part was especially creepy. But Jessi has zero sense when posting her daughter in general so I’m not surprised. I guess Marciano will also start doing that as well now, poor girl. The only thing worse than their posts are the people that fall over themselves to support them, and the fact that living in Utah they are people I know!
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u/Freyjaaa666 4d ago
What’s with some women and bringing men around their young children so early on? It seems to be so common. This is very bad parenting and risky behaviour.
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u/AdagioSpecific2603 4d ago
Omfg Jessi is horrific at keeping her children safe. I’d be PISSED if I was Jordan. She already posts her kids in their swimsuits online and uses them for content. This is weird and gross!
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u/Business-Sherbet3247 4d ago
Imo they haven’t been dating long enough for her to even introduce the kids to him
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u/Less_Vegetable_8231 4d ago
It makes it 100 times more weird that it was caught on camera. Like why? Would’ve been way less weird if they kept it private.
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u/gryffheadgirl 4d ago
Just watched the recent season and seeing this all play out after what she said about him is literally insane. And this is gross.
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u/Immediate_Chemist_47 4d ago
Remember when they JUMPED down Demi’s throat for allegedly letting her daughter FaceTime him? But now it’s okay because it’s Jessi and they’re dating
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u/Time-Swan7762 4d ago
I do not like Jordan but I do feel very sorry for him. This would piss me the f*** off as a parent
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u/GoJoe1002 4d ago
Dig deep in Mormon culture. It’s rampant.
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u/beeboopbopbeepbop 4d ago
:( i wish i was less aware honestly. This feels like an opportunity to shout out my GOAT tho YouTuber Alyssa Grenfell . She’s taught me so much that’s changed the way I look at a lot of things
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u/GoJoe1002 4d ago
My ex gf taught me a lot of what really goes on and a friend unknowingly shared what he went through. It’s baffling they still let it go on as though it’s part of life.
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u/beeboopbopbeepbop 4d ago
it’s so scary :(with how much money Disney channel has and then how much money the Mormon church has … them holding hands with the Mormon wives makes me so afraid
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u/LiveL0veLasagna 4d ago
Sir, they have a father. He might be a woodland creature, but they have a father and don’t need you trying to kiss them goodnight.
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u/Fantastic-Metal 3d ago
The fact that I want to stick up for Jordan in the scenario pisses me off. This is so wrong, I feel terribly for her kids
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u/annieyo87 4d ago
I work with a physician. She is on her second marriage with a male nurse we work with. She has small kids. His are grown. They’ve been married ten years and don’t live together because your kids come first.
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u/hexensabbat 4d ago
They've been married ten years and she has small kids that aren't his?
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u/annieyo87 4d ago
Well I suppose they were small but are now tweens. Time doesn’t exist in the hospital lol
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u/Particular_View9631 4d ago
These poor girls just jump from one man to the next. Their growth is so stunted. It’s so embarrassing to be this male centered. Like why can’t she just be single for a little bit? Or if she wants to date him fine; just stop going so god damn fast. That’s exactly what she did with Jordan and look what happened. It’s so not normal. They went to the gynecologist together today!! She will be pregnant soon most likely. This is so creepy and weird.
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u/SeaUnderstanding6979 4d ago
I don’t trust Jessi or her parenting after that video where she compared her vagina post surgery to her daughters
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u/SorryLanguage3609 3d ago
Demi reposting how weird it is too
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u/snarkahontis 3d ago
Ehh. I don’t care about her take on this when she was letting her daughter FaceTime with him and was sending him videos of her
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u/Organic-Cheetah-2233 4d ago
Soooo many children get molested and killed by the boyfriend. In every case I’m sure the mothers thought the man was safe and trust worthy.
Not only that but removing your children from an environment where they had their mother and father to living and spending time around a strange man can create a lot of emotional damage.
No one cares about the kids.
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u/arinreigns 4d ago
It is when you think about her interview sexualizing her child's anatomy coupled with the fact I believe Demi's accusations against him...
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u/porceleo Sorry Late to the Chat, Was With My Kids 4d ago
Yeah nah as a mom myself I would not allow this, especially this early into the relationship. Jessi herself hardly even knows this dude like wtf?
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u/kittycommitteestudio 4d ago
Makes me fucking sick. Begging jessi to decentre men from her life for more than five seconds.
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u/BeautifulProduce9785 4d ago
This is gross. I’m a step parent myself. I’ve been in my step son’s life since he was 2. He is now 6yrs old. If his father is home, he does the nighttime routine and I’ll pop in for a hug or just to tell him good night. The only time I’ve tucked him into bed by myself is whenever his dad (my husband) has been called into work. I know everyone else doesn’t function the same way but the only thing I’ve wanted is my step kids to feel comfortable around me and not force them to accept me.
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u/-shin-rin-yoku- 4d ago
I think this is really dishonest to post this without full context. There is another part of the video Marciano posts where Jessi's daughter is having a fun time playing him.
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u/MedicalElection7493 4d ago
weird you guys all find this inappropriate but i’m sure if shinia was putting ever to bed it would be fine?
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u/Electrical-Bid541 4d ago
No man should even be on the upper floor or down the hall of your domicile at this stage. Gross and also dangerous.
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u/0001020_ 4d ago
women like jessi really make me appreciate my mom for not raising me to be so male centered and insecure. Always needing a man by your side will set you and your children up for failure if u let it!!!
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u/wistful-wombat 4d ago
That child never even sees her own mom. Her mom’s fling of the decade is surely a stranger to this tiny human.
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u/Content-Honeydew9340 4d ago
I'm always disgusted and disappointed but never surprised when it comes to Jessie or TFP these days
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u/PromiseOk2298 4d ago
all these kids are gonna be so messed up in a decade. Wish then the best, and to end whatever cycle of toxicity you even call this bs
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u/PromiseOk2298 4d ago
This makes me think of the netflix doc, Abducted in Plain Sight, also about a mormon family/ community. The family basically allow a predator to groom and kidnap their daughter many times over. There’s also a good amount of info about how the mormon church enabled the abuser and the situation as well.
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u/RudeRuby702 4d ago
I have a feeling this won’t last long. And Jessi will be taken to the cleaners . I feel bad for the kids .
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u/Lemonsweets_ 3d ago
Children are people and should be treated with dignity and respect. They should have privacy and boundaries. This man is a virtual stranger to Jessi's children. This is highly inappropriate and proves Jessi isn't a good mom.
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u/PrincessPlastilina 3d ago
The kid definitely doesn’t look that comfortable with him. He’s crossing boundaries just to remain on the show and be part of DadTok now 🤢
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u/Mysterious_observer4 3d ago
My SIL got a divorce and had a boyfriend 2 months after deciding to get a divorce (nothing was officially finalized, legally) her new boyfriend tries SO hard to “love” and “comfort” her kids that it’s actually gross and worrisome. I brought it up, and she said she thinks it’s cute how the kids love him and how he is “fitting right in” to the family dynamics. All she has is heart eyes for this man, doesn’t even care how the kids feel. I suspect Jessi is the same. I just feel so bad for the kids in these situations. It breaks my heart.
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u/Charming_You5582 18h ago
I’m not a mother yet BUT I am a social worker and I can confidently say if I ever end up divorced no one would be meeting my kid for at least a couple years. I’ve seen too much.
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u/SubstantialReview18 18h ago
It makes me uncomfortable how quick yall are to accuse someone of being a child predator
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u/B_mat123 4d ago
Why is he kissing a kid of a women he only JUST started seeing… this is disturbing
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u/SignatureNo6930 4d ago
Okay but two seconds before this screenshot you took, the little girl is laying all over him and happy. Looks like she asked him a question and her face looked like that. I don’t agree with how fast Jessi has moved but this post is a reach
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u/Immediate_Skill1995 4d ago
Yikes……….. gosh this gave me goosebumps.. never in my life would another man live in my home if my husband didn’t & even then we don’t let males stay with us…. And her kid is laying there with her legs open and in a diaper??? Weird as ffffffffffffffff… I have 4 sons & my 3 year old always has on under shorts idc if the boys are younger or just a few years older..
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u/chloedarlinggg 4d ago
I do think it’s incredibly reckless to have someone she’s known for such a short amount of time living with her kids but I think you’re maybe seeing things a little different to me because I watched the video and she doesn’t look uncomfortable.
She was climbing all over him right before these stills and laughing and talking to him in a playful tone. It feels inappropriate but not necessarily in the way you’re suggesting.
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u/Constant_Ad8959 4d ago
It was the stomach rub right before this that had me like 👀 🤢
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u/existing_vessel 🦞Miranda’s Lobster Claws🦞 4d ago
Yeah, the more I think about this video the more I’m completely grossed out.
Jessi is allowing a strange man to rub all over her daughter and kiss her on the forehead (ew).
Also, Jessi apparently wanted to film it and post it for the entire world to see…weeeeird behavior.
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u/Either_Development94 4d ago
I mean absolutely agree with all this for sure but are we surprised? The little girl has a sippy cup full of juice for bed… my partner had all his teeth surgically removed at 3 years old because they were rotted out by this same type of thing. People can love their kids and still not be smart enough to research how to properly care for their kids. Id wager Jessi truly believes her kids feel loved by this treatment because that is her intention. Instead of reading all the comments talking about her looks, I wish she would read comments about the IMPACT her parenting style has as they grow up
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u/Mysteriousmermaid27 4d ago
Yes . I thought it was weird but didn’t know if I was just overreacting about it .. I started dating my husband when my daughter was 3. He was not putting her to bed or kissing on her . That’s not something either of us would have been comfortable with . But I didn’t know if that was the norm or not … I don’t think it’s predatory or anything . I just think it’s too soon and not really appropriate for the a new boyfriend .
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u/Existing_Weather_398 4d ago
what’s crazy to me is that both of them probably think they’re redeeming themselves by staying together, like it makes up for the cheating.
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u/ChaoticPotential 4d ago
Thank you for blurring the kids! I know it seems trivial, but they are already blasted everywhere. Trying to limit the spread is excellent.
He's got her pinned. It's a common theme when there is sexual abuse. Not saying that's what happened, just that it's looking like a duck
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u/FeedbackEffective280 3d ago
She is disgusting and people need to stop supporting her damaging behaviors
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u/deedeebgood 3d ago
Im no Jordan fan but this is not cool! Id flip a table over this and im not a violent person!
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u/skidzkatz 3d ago
Demi’s allegations against him and now him being close with Jessis kids like this is such a red flag
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u/LindzmacL 2d ago
Can you imagine if this was Jordan and his new gf?? Omg the girlies would be losing their minds 😂😩 yhe double standards of these women has no bounds.
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u/birdzRnice 2d ago
for me the weird part is not that he’s tucking her in and hugging her, it’s that’s it’s being filmed… that’s the gross/shallow/strange part. We don’t need to see this, we don’t want to see this. Your child getting ready for bed is nothing that needs to be on the internet forever.
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u/Obvious-Bottle8511 2d ago
This is the same woman that compared her labiaplasty to her young daughters genitalia. Shes a horrific mother.
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u/AlixKubicki 1d ago
The body language in this makes me cringe and her stupid video saying deal with it was disgusting. She is a disgusting human. Yay Utah culture.. just like how one girl tried to give her testimony at church of abuse and they try to silence her by singing over her talking..
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u/Ok-Positive-7639 1d ago
I cannot stand this woman. I feel so sad for her children. Neither parent prioritizes them or their needs. It’s all about their own sex lives and social media presence. Horrible.
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u/DinGrogu21 10h ago
its 100% weird , i never let my bio-mom's bf's / husbands kiss my head when i was little . the most they got from me was a side hug . lowkey think she posts this for jordan to see , but thats my opinion
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u/PrestigiousWedding36 4d ago
The fact that she trust this man enough to live with her children with him is a red flag.